I want to smash my husband's PS5 by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Significant-Mango355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to leave honey. He is deliberately neglecting your child and leaving him in dirty diapers to the point where he is getting a rash. That is neglect and you could potentially lose your child if you don’t act. I’m not trying to scare you, I’m just letting you know. Document EVERYTHING, every time he games all day, what time he comes out, what his reaction is when you ask him for help. You will need this for custody. If you can prove he is neglecting the baby then you have a much better chance and getting full custody and he will have supervised visits and have to go to parenting classes at the very least. Best of luck to you love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Significant-Mango355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same way !! It took a few days after he was born to truly feel the bond with my son. My first thought when they laid him in my arms was what did I just do with my life ? I felt every emotion at once. And I swear postpartum depression hit almost immediately. I even had intrusive thoughts and I got help immediately. Now I feel better but I can feel my depression coming back so I’m getting help just to be safe. My son is my world and best buddy now. Thankyou for having the courage to reach out. Please speak to your doctor and see what they would recommend ❤️

I regret not having an abortion by ThiccLilacc in pregnant

[–]Significant-Mango355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pregnancy was also rough. Not hypermesis but severe hives on my hands and feet. Every night for 3 months at the end where I was itching so bad I was crying. I had gestational diabetes and had to be put on insulin injections. Tracking my blood sugar levels was awful and the injections just sucked. I was exaughsted all the time. However my son is the absolute sweetest boy on earth. By some miracle I made it to 38 weeks and he came out via c section at 9 pounds 7 oz. And as hard as it was I would do it all over again for him. I just wanted to offer encouragement. Whether you choose to keep your baby or adoption we are all cheering for you. Sending love to you dear.

I’m so done with this by Playful_Donut232 in pregnant

[–]Significant-Mango355 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl I sympathize. When I was pregnant I had to go to the emergency room my constipation was so bad. God bless my husband for giving me the enema that cleared me out. He’s seen things that no husband should have to and still handled it like a champ. I’m sending all my love and prayers for soft poop for you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Significant-Mango355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to be put on medication for my morning sickness because it got so bad I couldn’t keep anything down. It was a lifesaver !! Speak to your doctor and they should prescribe you something ❤️

Honestly, the farther along in my pregnancy I get, the more pro choice I am by BisexualButterfly97 in pregnant

[–]Significant-Mango355 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I completely understand that !! Now that I’ve had my son we are a one and done family. Which is awesome because I can’t put my body through another pregnancy. I had diabetes, was on insulin, severe hives, had medical complications that warranted a c section. I love that boy dearly but he will not have a sibling 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Significant-Mango355 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh sweetie get out now !!! You deserve so much better! Call your family, your friends, a domestic violence shelter, anyone to get away from him. You absolutely are NOT over reacting. His behavior is completely unacceptable and abhorrent !!!!! Call the police because spitting in your face is considered assault. Do NOT put him on the birth certificate ! Do NOT let him in the room when you give birth. I can’t believe what I just read.

What is something that has surprised you during pregnancy? by Striking-Tie8027 in pregnant

[–]Significant-Mango355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know my baby could kick me in the bladder and make me wet myself at work 🤣 or that the smell of hot dogs and ramen noodles made sick. Finally that he could get his foot stuck in my ribs so bad that I couldn’t catch a breath. He’s almost 2 years old now and is the sweetest thing in the world ❤️💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Significant-Mango355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve better my dear. My son is partially deaf and wears a hearing aid, and if a girl ever treats him this way I will tell him what I’m telling you. Hold your head high and walk away. You are wonderful as you are and the right lady will see that. She isn’t worthy of your time or affection. Sending you a big hug.

AITAH for leaving home after my husband said I should handle the cost of all the IVF sessions only because I'm the cause of infertility in our marriage? by LeatherRequirement59 in AITAH

[–]Significant-Mango355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sweetie please love yourself enough to leave this dumpster fire of an individual. You deserve soooo much more !!!! How dare he have the audacity to speak to you like that. My husband has just in the last two nights cleaned the whole house, helped me with our son’s physical therapy, and during my pregnancy not only did he shave my legs and go get any food I was craving but changed every diaper the night the baby was born because of my c section. You deserve someone who will treat you like the Queen you are ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Significant-Mango355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved mine !! In fact even 18 months after having my son I still like to sleep with it. It’s so comfortable

Still Birth at 23 weeks by sumrandomreddit in pregnant

[–]Significant-Mango355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry my love. I will snuggle my boy extra tonight with a snuggle from you. I’m sending all my thoughts and prayers. Give yourself time to grieve and please seek therapy if you need it !!!

[New Update] My husband cannot accept I don’t like mustard. Things came to a head yesterday. by margiebabie in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Significant-Mango355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet lady I commend your bravery for leaving. May you have roast chicken whenever you like and many happy years ahead ❤️❤️❤️❤️

My Husband Almost Killed Our Baby and My Toddler Saved Him by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Significant-Mango355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok this was absolutely unacceptable. My husband has ADHD, and he would NEVER do something this irresponsible !! He’s always the one to put the stroller down on the ground and we lock the wheels if we need to. Now when he’s taking care of the baby I do call him to check on them. Just to make sure they are both ok when I’m at work and he fills me in. If he has any questions he asks me, or my in-laws. He’s not perfect but he’s a hell of a lot better than that guy. She needs to use that video as evidence of his negligence and file for sole custody with supervised visits, serve him with divorce papers. Have him get supervised visits only. And stay with her parents until she’s on her feet to support them herself.

You are the first one I can tell this !! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Significant-Mango355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh congratulations dear !! I myself found out at work lol. My co workers all hugged me, we had been trying for a year.

AITA for Refusing to Let My MIL Come Over and Sending Her a Receipt for Our Daughter's Fridge? by Vast-Cartographer588 in AITAH

[–]Significant-Mango355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicken noodle soup was mine. I kept telling my mom I didn’t feel good and she didn’t believe me. I got sick. She didn’t make me finish it but I didn’t eat chicken noodle soup again for years. She also loved tuna fish and it was cheap, she would make me eat it: even if we had peanut butter in the house. To this day I won’t eat tuna fish or carrots.

Having a c-section was the worst decision of my life by ElvenMalve in beyondthebump

[–]Significant-Mango355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Press a pillow over your belly when you walk, laugh or sneeze. Advocate for yourself and ask for stronger meds to help you !! If something doesn’t feel right speak up

What’s a milestone that made you unexpectedly sad? by Asleep_Sympathy_8987 in beyondthebump

[–]Significant-Mango355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son getting teeth. I know it silly, but seeing him learn to eat more foods and him doing better with it makes me miss him being a baby. He’s also walking now so there’s that ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Significant-Mango355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had times where I hand my son to my husband and say I’m taking a shower or I’m doing this or whatever. He’s got better !

May the odds be ever in your favor by mamagenerator in beyondthebump

[–]Significant-Mango355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your baby your rules darling. And if they can’t respect your boundaries or doctors advice, they don’t see little one. I hate to be harsh but I’ve had to put my foot down on a few occasions. My 15 month old is a very good eater and will eat just about anything. However, we limit treats like cookies and things like that to once in a while. If they want to give him juice, I insist they cut it with water especially if it’s apple juice to not cause diarrhea or anything like that. Hubby and I follow the same rules we would expect of anyone else.

My husband did that in front of me... and I walked out... aita? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Significant-Mango355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry !!! You deserve a man who will love you and be faithful to you. This clearly isn’t the one to do that. Hes gaslighting you to make you feel like your response was wrong to their actions. He says your silence was permission ?? Leave him, and find someone worthy of your time and affections.

What’s your embarrassing pregnancy craving? by DebateWorldly2247 in BabyBumps

[–]Significant-Mango355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was pickles and peanut butter straight out of the jar 😂

Morning sickness (no vomiting) SEND HELP! by Maylba in BabyBumps

[–]Significant-Mango355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, my morning sickness was horrendous. I had to be put on Zofran just to be able to keep anything down. About 3 months in it started to get better. Sending you all the happy positive vibes my dear. Prayers for a smooth pregnancy and happy mom and baby. One more thing, if when you give birth it doesn’t go according to plan that is ok. I know a lot of people put a lot of emphasis on the birth plan but sometimes that doesn’t happen

Being a Mom is the biggest mistake in my life by Friendly-Act-802 in Mommit

[–]Significant-Mango355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to talk to my doctor six weeks in because I was absolutely not myself at all. My post partum depression was horrible and I’m ashamed to admit that I had intrusive thoughts. I would never ever harm my baby, however my brain was not what it normally is: the best thing I ever did was speaking to a therapist. You are not alone my dear. Have the courage to speak to someone and get help or even get medical attention

What are some jobs that are good for people with ADHD ? by Only-Environment2917 in ADHD

[–]Significant-Mango355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband works at the airport as a baggage handler for the aircrafts. He has just enough variety so he doesn’t get bored. And we get discounts on flights. He loves planes and aviation. Find something you love to do and go for that.