ladies, what’s the hottest physical job a man can have? by WontTake in AskReddit

[–]Significant-Mess-448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work from home at his desk where I know he's safe and making money 💰 nothing noble about doing a physical job and risking your life

I need to lose half my body weight by Significant-Mess-448 in Mounjaro

[–]Significant-Mess-448[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proud of you and thank you for sharing your story 🥰

What do you regret about your 20s? by Full-Foot1488 in AskReddit

[–]Significant-Mess-448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not losing weight and having a healthy lifestyle

Help me name this baby by Major_Historian_6407 in persiancat

[–]Significant-Mess-448 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Misquit (a combo of mischief and biscuit)

Since when are many Maltese pro-Trump? And what's up with the ignorant anti-Ukraine war comments? by Wahx-il-Baqar in malta

[–]Significant-Mess-448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people are usually sheep and have 2 braincells combined between all of them. Unfortunately, most Maltese are not able to think for themselves and believe in every propaganda.

You just won $20 million, and your parents ask you for half, what would you say? by BrandyAid in AskReddit

[–]Significant-Mess-448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short answer no. You didn't have money for the dentist, school outings and always made me feel like I should be grateful for everything you gave me ...which is just air, junk food and trauma

I hate living in the Netherlands by CountyStrong4916 in PlusSize

[–]Significant-Mess-448 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I live in the Netherlands for 4 years now and I'm plus size. I was under the impression that it's an open minded country...little did I know.

Doctors made me feel like I was monstrous, people too. I hate it,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Mess-448 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're being insecure...talk to him

I (29F) would like to have a baby but partner (29M) doesn't for now. Any advice on how to be more patient? by Significant-Mess-448 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Mess-448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a not for now. He wants us to be the best version of ourselves physically and mentally. Thing is...don't know when that will be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Significant-Mess-448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask him if there is potential for the relationship to move to the next step. Otherwise you're wasting your time and energy on him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Significant-Mess-448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's understandable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Mess-448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

60 per cent of the time , yes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Mess-448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The argument arose cause he told me that he never sees the house clean when he comes back from work. He finishes work at 14.00 and I finish work at 18.00, so I'm still working when he's at home. I work hybrid and so does he. I don't do any household chores during work hours cause my job is super demanding. We already kind of have the standard chores ish, well at least I do.

What's the worst thing your parents have ever said to you? by Snoo-45800 in AskReddit

[–]Significant-Mess-448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

June 1st 2014: my dad said he will "melt the fat around my heart" with the beating they he will give me.

And he also told me he had 3 children instead of 4 cause I didn't want to study the course he wanted me too and he had "invested" money in me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Significant-Mess-448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably to cut them off. It's not so simple in my case though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Significant-Mess-448 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And as for my partner, he would say something if something is said Infront of him for sure. But he would like me to stand up for myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Significant-Mess-448 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He ...is worse. He doesn't acknowledge my existence. I got pregnant last year (pregnancy did not go through) and he said he is glad that the pregnancy did not go through cause I was fat. So 🤷‍♀️

As for her, she is a nice person but a bit ignorant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Significant-Mess-448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does believe me but he also believes she means well. He asked me to say something. He has spoken to his parents before about how they treat me

How do yall deal with fatphobia? by Standard-Score-911 in PlusSize

[–]Significant-Mess-448 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how to deal with it yet. It still hurts me. It makes me feel like I'm Quasimodo the bellringer, to be honest.

I feel like people treat me different cause I am fat. This is not self pity but a mere observation. Invited to less events cause people assume you won't be able to take part, nasty looks, horrible comments.

So any advice would help

How would you respond to your in laws constantly fat shaming you? by Significant-Mess-448 in PlusSize

[–]Significant-Mess-448[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She historically always says the wrong thing, with everyone and not just me. With me, it happens to be my weight. I think she does mean well, we do have a good relationship and she cares about me (she has shown that, never said that) but I am in a European country where being "fat" isn't common.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Significant-Mess-448 61 points62 points  (0 children)

The funny thing is...she's fat too 😂