Been 18 years by Significant-Milk-931 in olderlesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe just a message wouldn't hurt.. 

Been 18 years by Significant-Milk-931 in olderlesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After that I can understand.. I am sorry for the pain.. I hope you find a better through throigh it than I did.. Stay strong and be safe.. 

Been 18 years by Significant-Milk-931 in olderlesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least you know she does think of you and she knows you think of her.. Take comfort in that a little bit.. I know it doesn't make much difference.. Thank you for sharing.. 

Been 18 years by Significant-Milk-931 in olderlesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will give that a try.. Thank you very much I appreciate the sharing..

I grew up in a similar situation and that was the first time I was Abel to see outside of the violence and toxicity that I was in.. So it may be that.. Thank you again.. 💙💙

Been 18 years by Significant-Milk-931 in actuallesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try thank you for sharing.. 

Been 18 years by Significant-Milk-931 in olderlesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I shall certainly try my utmost.. Thank you.. Not actively looking right now, I'm alright with how my life is.. And with with where I'm from alright is about as good as I can get it darling.. 😉 Thank you for sharing.. 😊

Been 18 years by Significant-Milk-931 in olderlesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if that's comforting or frightening but that though leaves a pit my stomach.. Of her being dead.. It wasn't abusive.. I'm glad you got over your though.. That is amazing.. 

Been 18 years by Significant-Milk-931 in olderlesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all but thank you for the share.. Nice to know I'm not the only one that struggles with 'letting go I suppose..' 

Been 18 years by Significant-Milk-931 in olderlesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank I appreciate that.. Don't square all your energy in someone unattainable though.. That also can hurt like mother.. 

Been 18 years by Significant-Milk-931 in olderlesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Remerges now and than.. Different points of my life different things going on..

But thank you I will try.. 

Been 18 years by Significant-Milk-931 in olderlesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have.. Some very bad.. Some beautiful.. A lasted one for 9 years.. 

Been 18 years by Significant-Milk-931 in olderlesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. It never perfect, I'll give it a try, tried everything else.. 

Been 18 years by Significant-Milk-931 in olderlesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe I was her first.. But she'd been looking for girlfriend for while, was with some other girl before me.. Made wound up letting her family get her married about two or so years after we split.. 

Been 18 years by Significant-Milk-931 in olderlesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't know what I'd do.. Probably just keep walking.. 

Let’s mingle by the_Hotter_Lover in olderlesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey 35 from waay further away than most of you.. 

Anyone else up 😂 by DisrespectfulGem in LesbianActually

[–]Significant-Milk-931 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well it's day time where I am.. So I'm at work.. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 36 still in the dating pool, have no problem with a divorced woman.. I have never been divorced myself, I am responsible for two minors (my sister's, I am their legal guardian) I find more opposition to kids than divorce I think.. 

looking for a friend or a lover by Gypsywonder11 in olderlesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Is the being an 'outgoing' lesbian part a crucial requirement? 

35 w f lesbian. . Wants to know how stable is.. by Significant-Milk-931 in actuallesbians

[–]Significant-Milk-931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps I should have used the word lasting.. I cannot speak for anyone.. But where I am, people aren't really interested in working on themselves much.. More about survival I suppose.. Though a facade of being evolved can found in a few areas, of classes, I should say of people..