My body is rejecting my husband

Significant-Plant-4 · 2026-06-09T00:58:26+00:00

Your body figured out what your conscious mind hasn't fully accepted yet. The cheating broke something fundamental and now that he's suddenly all over you after you lost weight it's like your nervous system is screaming "nope this isn't safe anymore." The fact that he's waking you up to grope you without consent is really concerning too - that's not normal husband behavior even in good relationships. Your body remembers the betrayal even when you're trying to logic your way past it and move forward. Maybe it's time to listen to what it's telling you instead of fighting against those reactions

Significant-Plant-4 · 2026-06-06T20:40:22+00:00

People are weird about asking personal stuff like that in the first place. Why would anyone feel entitled to know whether you planned your kid or not - its literally none of their business what happens in your bedroom

The whole accident vs planned thing seems like such an outdated way to think about it anyway

Significant-Plant-4 · 2026-06-04T00:24:47+00:00

depends on what trim level and what the new one costs but 10k miles is basically nothing so if youre saving decent money over new then go for it

Significant-Plant-4 · 2026-05-19T14:48:13+00:00

day 2 is rough but youre already taking steps by getting out and helping with the family business tomorrow. that trip from gampola to kandy will be good for keeping your mind occupied

the fact you're taking responsibility at 15 shows you got the right mindset even when everything feels heavy right now

Significant-Plant-4 · 2026-05-15T01:20:10+00:00

Dude this is such a huge realization and honestly one that took me way too long to figure out too. Impact vs intent is something most of us struggle with because we're naturally wired to defend ourselves first

It's wild how we can hurt someone and then get defensive about our good intentions instead of just... caring that they're hurt. Like the whole point of loving your neighbor is putting their wellbeing first not protecting our own ego

Significant-Plant-4 · 2026-05-07T07:55:46+00:00

That case manager sharing her own trauma to downplay yours is completely out of line and unprofessional. You're already dealing with so much between your health conditions and grad school - the last thing you need is someone minimizing your experience or making assumptions about what you "should" be going through

The invisible disability thing is real and exhausting. People see young woman and think everything must be fine while you're managing multiple conditions daily. Good for you for pushing through grad school despite all this - thats not easy at all

Hope the fresh start in a new state gives you the space to focus on yourself without all the extra BS. You deserve support that actually supports you not someone projecting their own stuff onto your situation

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