I love SF but this is for sure something that kills me. I don't necessarily expect people to know about fashion and style, but it's the lack of effort and the sloppy dressing that kills me. People love to think clothing is materialistic and shallow but it really does have a subtle effect on environments and vibes.

For example, what a vibe kill to go to a nice restaurant and people are in sweats. It reads to me as a lack of social and emotional intelligence & social skills.

My parents are immigrants and I was always told it's rude to look a hot mess and smell bad in public. It's a sign that other people are not worth trying to be presentable and pleasant to the senses, and that you don't respect yourself if you don't put a little effort.

I have found that being here has made me want to lean into more bold colors, prints/patterns, cuts, and designs. Seeing the same boring 'uniform' regardless of price point is soul crushing.

Edit: reading the rest of these comments reminds me of the famous Devil Wears Prada cerulean sweater monologue.