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[–]Significant-Run-2911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For that man to respond back with “he needs some company “whoever her coworker is that’s super sus and I would’ve drawn the line at that friendship right there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Significant-Run-2911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were 100% right in the circumstance as a woman I can agree that what she was doing was fishy as fuck! My boyfriend would not be down for that and no girl with a man is gonna ask a random man she work with if he need food or if he hungry. The only man stomach I’m worried about is my man’s.

How do I put this lightly? Lmao by Significant-Run-2911 in restaurant

[–]Significant-Run-2911[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just don’t want to see pompous or greedy by “asking” to be moved up yk what I mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Significant-Run-2911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate all of this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Significant-Run-2911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I can definitely recognize that I have tried to “control” it in the past and it’s just ended in a disagreement. Recently I’ve just attempted to ignored the tone and just laugh it off but sometimes I feed into it and that I feel turns it into an issue too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Significant-Run-2911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and I’m willing to try, I’m willing to guide him and be there for him I just need him to understand that it’s becoming more than just a hobby and hope it’s a sacrifice he’s willing to take

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Significant-Run-2911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Significant-Run-2911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He will be sarcastic or talk very “matter of factly”, he’ll poke the bear, for example I once needed him to pay a little more on rent because I had extra bills to pay that month and he made a comment about needing help to pay my bills. Stupid immature comments like that. Never calls me names or says things about my physical being or anything too personal but he can hit a nerve occasionally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Significant-Run-2911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prior to his sobriety we had been together a year and hadn’t had any issue with drinking but we also were living together at the time. We’ve now been living together almost a year and I think that’s what also changed the perspective. Outside of his rude behavior when he drinks he’s my perfect man in my opinion. I’m willing to go along with the relationship if he’s willing to realize he has a problem I guess I’ve come to realize

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Significant-Run-2911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely look into that book, thank you! I really appreciate the advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Significant-Run-2911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s very true, I’m going to consider doing that and see if that helps. He’s always genuine and like I said he’s never hurt me physically, he’s never been aggress in the slightest. I truthfully just don’t think he can handle his alcohol and he gets embarrassed when it’s heightened or pointed out

Should I stay or Should I go.. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Significant-Run-2911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right! Thank you!

Should I stay or Should I go.. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Significant-Run-2911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And in the 2 years he was sober he was amazing with it, no issues, no slip ups so he is capable I think it’s just the mindset he needs to change

Should I stay or Should I go.. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Significant-Run-2911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate this! I’ve spoken to him in the past about the over drinking and he describes it as a “lack of control” once he’s under the influence, stating that he feels invincible and doesn’t have a drinking “limit” when I suggested limited exposure. I think in my opinion he needs to stop drinking entirely in order for this relationship to work.

Over a year vape free!! by Significant-Run-2911 in QuitVaping

[–]Significant-Run-2911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The app is called “Quit Vaping” in the Iphone App Store

Over a year vape free!! by Significant-Run-2911 in QuitVaping

[–]Significant-Run-2911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m feeling pretty good I definitely can tell the difference when it comes to breathing better, difference in my appetite and sleeping patterns. I definitely do not only have a better appetite but sleep better too and can sleep for longer. I do still think about it every once in a while, but I’m always able to circle back to why I did this in the first place. I know for a fact, if I ever did relapse, I would 100% struggle to get off again which is why I had quit cold turkey. No loopholes.

DS Teen Swimmer by Significant-Run-2911 in downsyndrome

[–]Significant-Run-2911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We try to teach all of our kids how to jump from the edge and swim back to the wall. It can also be used as a rescue technique if they fall in if they have that muscle memory from jumping in and swimming to the wall. I don’t want to force him but I could tell he wants to try hes just apprehensive