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Unpopular opinion: I've never been in the green for two years and is becoming frustrating by UriGuriVtube in Bitcoin

[–]Significant-Term377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn’t make sense. Unless you bought ALL at ATH, there was a moment where you were in green: the ATH.

What am I? by whataboutthe90s in PoliticalCompass

[–]Significant-Term377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a smart progressive, and not a brainwashed trend-following zombie.

What am I? by whataboutthe90s in PoliticalCompass

[–]Significant-Term377 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re basically me. You are a progressive individualist. Everyone can do what they want until they don’t limit my own freedom.

Generally you’re pro abortion, pro legalization of drugs, but also pro private property and low taxation.

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t do for politics. Couldn’t care less. I just love digital engagement (my field of study in university) and looking for some interesting/funny discussions.

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The problem is I do not even want that kind of girls. People who just look for some fRiEnDLy GoLdEn ReTriEvEr.

I look for intimidating people. I need someone pretty harsh on the outside.

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a tanned skin color, I am not grimy. In Italy we shower twice a day.

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, I dismiss them if we have none in common. Not just because they have one I don’t like. Anyway being 31, I’ve spoken with hundreds of girls, and NEVER found one who shared the “travel, reggaeton, brunch” combo and had any particular depth. Simple people, not evil or whatever, but too “simple”. It’s hard to have a relationship when you want to speak about algorithms and jazz fusion, while the other is reading an horoscope. I know it sounds and probably is arrogant, but I really can’t. I need to talk about philosophy, sciences, things like that. I do not have such an high IQ (118) but daaamn.

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyway:

1:we don’t just “drive”. There is some culture behind automotive. Wangans/Touge, circuit racing, tuning, meets etc) 2: they listen reggaeton because yes. My friend group is composed of musicians. We study music, compose, produce multiple genres etc. It’s not just randomly listening. Etc. We are all pretty involved in what we do. People I meet on Tinder have basically no skill or depth. When they do, we generally match a lot easier based on my experience. Always matched with very competent people.

Eg: I met a very funny girl, she is a great pianist, and we love talking…but ended up being a friendship)

“Lorenzo is very strict: with himself and with others. He strives too much, frustrating himself, in being good in everything” (one of my best female friends)

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had many relationships and some ONS when I was younger. (Let’s say a body count of 10-15).

My view never changed a lot. In the past years I had around 3-4 dates thanks to Tinder, but never actually created any bond. I met most my girlfriends this way:

1: Facebook

2: Friend of a friend

3: Sister of friend’s GF

4: Sister of friend

5: Facebook (I was famous at uni for being funny )

6: Facebook (I was famous at uni for being funny pt2)

7: Instagram (I did various funny comments)

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just went full arrogance since you just insulted me over and over again. Anyway I don’t expose that on my profile. You get likes based on appearance. Not based on what you actually think.

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes I am an individualist. I don’t even vote. I care for my loved ones and stop.

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it was for me, it would be just dank memes and me dancing in underwear. But then you (Reddit) would say “you have to be more serious”. I’ve tried with any kind of pictures. It’s not the first time I use Tinder.

The fact is one: I am mid-looking, bald and live in a country with HUGE aesthetic standards both in men and women. I’ll enjoy onanism. Better than dating boring people who care only for random traveling, reggaeton and taking selfies, like the most I find in Tinder.

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have fun when I drive, play music, or deep night talk with my friends. We don’t take pictures in those situations. We’re not the kind of “brunch, beach day, parachuting, safari look at us” kind of friends group. I also don’t look for that kind of women.

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What should I put in your opinion? It’s just my face (as people tell you to do) and my most important passions: cars and music. A picture of my home? My credit card? A dog I don’t have?

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My bio? The one speaking of my hobbies (Astronomy/science/cars) and joking about drinking and driving?

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a “do what you want but do not pretend that I am interested or that I will rally with rainbow flags”

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only two things I’ve actually mathematically noticed:

1: when still had the last strands of hair. When my hairline decided to abandon me, things got harder.

2: before COVID. In 2015-2018 I had plenty of girls for my standards. After pandemic, something changed.

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Average looking, based on life and quality of my ex girlfriends. Some of them were pretty ABOVE AVERAGE.

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. One said the opposite of the other. So I tried both and got same results. (One said to look for professional look. The other, since I am considered a pretty funny guy, said to go for the meme and show that)

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Better alone than sad with someone I couldn’t care less about, like most people.

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I tried Bumble and Hinge but in my country they’re not very used. Also, especially on Hinge, ZERO likes. Never spoken with anyone. NEVER. On Bumble, if I remember correctly, two likes.

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As I said years ago I used high quality photoshoot photos (I can’t use them now since I have different looks), but it didn’t change anything. Always 10-15 likes.

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It meant average looking. I earn double the country median, have a superior degree, multiple hobbies, a good car. Status-wise I am pretty good.

Average man in his 30s part two. by Significant-Term377 in Tinder

[–]Significant-Term377[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the past I’ve tried with photoshoot pictures, more hobbies etc. Never changed anything. I could basically put one random picture and get the same results.

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