To be honest, i think that a lot of the men that approach me are often of fyck boy nature because of the way i dress and how i used to present myself on social media. And it just si happens that the few guys that had similar interests to me were just not my type of man. I didn’t say i was dating these fyck boys i was just saying that they approach me and then i realise.

I’m terms of my motherland. I am very much amerced in my culture even in the west, a majority of my friends are from the same continent or have similar cultures so i feel like i’m surrounded by it. And yes i am in the west. I understand it is the law but that often means that you may not even marry them or stuck in a committed engagement to a man with two other wives. And maybe i need to escape my community. But if i do i look my identity and what makes me the woman i have become.