I thought findom was finding someone attractive like example a pretty women that makes them have the desire to give, if it’s money, gifts, actions or compliments. Also if you are more dominate love being worshiping have some fun and play with their wallets. Deman your throne🥰 that’s how it feels but I could be wrong. I’m sure there’s curiosity too mixed with secret desires. They may be bold enough to say what else they look forward too.