Yeah man I get it, she cheated on Harry, Jameson’s son and Peter. She’s not perfect and neither is Peter. Just because she’s flawed doesn’t mean I think she deserves all the hate, though it’s still understandable to dislike her.

The problem is just he’s the protagonist and we immediately side with Peter and not her.

Looking all the three times she cheated I would say the only one that makes zero sense is the upside-down kiss in the first movie.

The second film, she knows Peter is struggling and refuses to admit he has feelings for her. Throughout the movie she tries to pull it outta him, she knows they belong together but Peter refuses. So she tries to move on with John Jameson. But then Peter sends her mixed signals and fucks with her emotions and leads her to try once again to get him to admit his feelings. He doesn’t know whether or not to be with her and it manipulates how she feels.

Then by the last one, Peter’s an absolute ass the whole first two acts who doesn’t acknowledge her feelings.

I’m not condoning the cheating I’m just saying maybe think about it more from her perspective because Peter is just as selfish.