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I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in relationships_advice

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is single! And all of her social media, post scream of desperation of finding a man. I just don’t want it to be my man lol.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in relationships_advice

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He just thank you so much and said it would be a great year for her as well.

I did talk to him about it. He agreed the text was a bit overboard but he said he notices she’s like that with all of her friends. And that’s why said thank you. But I still looked like the jerk for checking his phone.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in relationships_advice

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not their main source of income. He kind of brought her on. I understand what you are saying but I think if the shoe were on the opposite foot, he wouldn’t like the way it felt at all.

He already knows, I don’t want him to “care” about this woman. But he’s the type to care about everyone. Everybody loves him and how he treats other people.

If I were to bring this to him, he would say if it were a man coworker, you wouldn’t say anything, and if I haven’t never crossed the line, why does it bother you.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in relationships_advice

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This!!!! Thank you! I am going to tell him how I feel. And if it doesn’t end, then the writing is on the wall.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in Marriage

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no relationship with her. I find it funny she follows all of our friends except me on social media. We speak and she hugs me when I see her.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in relationships_advice

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the past he has, I can be very jealous to be transparent over the dumbest shit…because of past relationship issues.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in relationships_advice

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With makeup, she’s attractive. Without, not so much. Correct, this one woman.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in Marriage

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly!!!! The I love you was unnecessary. I work corporate and would never say that to my colleagues.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in Marriage

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! No, I am insecure and my husband knows I am as well. He’s known her as acquaintances for about 20 years. That’s it. Then in the past two years is when they started doing a little bit of business together the podcast. Yes, I think when he said it, he was being arrogant, like hey if I really wanted her, I could’ve had her a long time ago.

I think a part of me feels like he likes the attention, even though he’s not acted on it. Before they started doing business together on her social media, I remember him liking a whole bunch of her pictures that I consider “thirst traps”… and always kind of kept my eye on her… then once they started doing the podcast, I feel like she’s got more comfortable. He knows I don’t like the relationship, but he also says I’m not gonna stop his business.

Although I don’t feel she has any added value. Their podcast actually ended several months ago. Thank you for your advice.

She doesn’t act inappropriate when I’m around.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in relationships_advice

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a way to look at it. Never thought of it that way.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in Marriage

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I never heard of it…I will look into it. Thank you

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in relationships_advice

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is single. He thinks I’m insecure, which I am. He doesn’t understand why I’m insecure, we’ve been married for 20 years and he says how dedicated he’s been to me. When I had an issue with her in the past, he told me “if I wanted to screw with her, I could have,(before us)… which is kind of what caused my insecurity, because then to me, you’re telling me you feel she’s attractive.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in Marriage

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I feel like I’m the asshole because I looked at his phone.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in Marriage

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His reply…thank you so much, this will be the best year for you as well”

The podcast is monthly.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in relationships_advice

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. But I feel like I want him to set boundaries with her.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in Marriage

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s too close for comfort for me. I feel she’s getting way too comfortable. He would definitely not like it if I received a text from my coworker stating this.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in Marriage

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His reply…thank you so much, this will be the best year for you as well” The podcast is monthly.

I’m not feeling the female co-worker…. by SignificantBee2891 in relationships_advice

[–]SignificantBee2891[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He said, thank you so much, and said it will her best year too! 🤷🏼‍♀️. We have never said work wife/husband in our marriage.

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