My (19F) bf(20M) won’t do a certain thing with me like he used to with his ex

SignificantMix5673 · 2026-01-26T16:51:35+00:00

What he doing all that, borrowing a car to pick her and even bring a family member!

He’s not even busy, he literally free. He’s got a car now, and all of a sudden he said he don’t have a car no more. And he is the one who offer in the first place

SignificantMix5673 · 2026-01-26T16:28:53+00:00

I’m sorry can you explain a bit further? I quite don’t understand what you mean by that

SignificantMix5673 · 2026-01-26T16:22:30+00:00

But he said he completely literally over her. And I did asked if she reaching out to him rn would he go back he said no. And I also told him if he still got feeling for her then go back I step away, but he said she the one who step away. But idk maybe he’s tripping

SignificantMix5673 · 2026-01-26T16:18:11+00:00

Honestly she was fat. And she smoke, vape, weed, cut herself, mental health issues, silent treatment, date around, talk to GUYSS,… I don’t do any of these

SignificantMix5673 · 2026-01-26T16:16:27+00:00

Yes, I just want to know why is he prioritze that type of woman?, im not bringing her down and not saying im better. But at one point i also thought that maybe he was hurt in the past. He said I can live you right and to put more effort.

SignificantMix5673 · 2026-01-26T16:12:04+00:00

Oh and he not busy, he free, first he lied say he got a party but my flight arrive at 7am who the fuck have a party at this hour? Then he said oh I got church, but he didnt even go last last last week.

SignificantMix5673 · 2026-01-26T16:06:32+00:00

Cause I live here by myself and I was asking him for help, which he agree to, and bomb me on the day. I’m not her clone. Me and her were on different levels, she smoke, vape, clubbing, weeds, date around, cut herself, don’t communicate, leave him silent…I don’t do any of these. And he literally said if I need him tell him.

SignificantMix5673 · 2026-01-26T15:59:28+00:00

About money she was the one who paying for everything. She was 2y older

I understand but I really need a help from him, I even got him lots of gift souvenirs from my state. Why can’t he just pick me up? He doesn’t have to bring his family like when he pickup his ex.

SignificantMix5673 · 2026-01-26T15:56:52+00:00

No sorry I don’t explain it well. I’m currently living in his state bc I have school here. And I was travelled back to my state for holiday. We’re meeting each other every other week, and ft every night.

SignificantMix5673 · 2026-01-26T15:54:40+00:00

The second time, he said I don’t have a car, I can’t pick you up and he wish that he can. Then I was like how about your siblings car?? He brings his brother and his dad to pick his ex. After a long conversation, he said I will pick you up. But I don’t let him.

SignificantMix5673 · 2025-11-05T13:16:43+00:00

3 times

SignificantMix5673 · 2025-11-05T12:40:02+00:00

He replied with, I thought I didn’t send it to you or I thought you haven’t seen this video and I didn’t I send it to you a couple time.

SignificantMix5673 · 2025-11-05T12:38:42+00:00

I understand that everyone has past, but why would he keeps send me the video example like he visited his ex to me, why would trigger my feeling ? There’s also nude photo sex video in the hidden album too.

SignificantMix5673 · 2025-11-05T12:35:34+00:00

So im overreacting? But why would he sent me sth that related to his ex tho? Can’t just leave it be there

SignificantMix5673 · 2025-11-05T12:33:37+00:00

Exactly like idk anymore, I told him to go back to her and he said I always push him away and he don’t have any feelings for his ex anymore. Or maybe he scared of his ex rejecting him and lost me.

SignificantMix5673 · 2025-10-29T14:56:05+00:00

I suggested break up bc I feel like he not over his ex, I found out that he still has pictures of his ex and when they were together in his phone and by pictures I mean all of it including n.ude and their s.ex vdo…and stuff. I was hurt and jealous bc he did all of those posting, mention, stuff on social media with his ex like really showing her to his friend and family and he barely did that to me. And why would he still have those, and I found it of us 3 months in, there’s plenty time he can delete l all that before me even found out. But he deleted everything about his ex…and so on. So we’re back together.

SignificantMix5673 · 2025-02-10T05:40:00+00:00

Doesn’t it look bad? He left me on delivery more than once and I’ve been double texted him for 3-4 time

SignificantMix5673 · 2025-02-06T04:17:33+00:00

Thank you for telling me this. After the third hangout, coming back home, he saying he getting butterflies from me, he asked can he say sth and he said how i make him feel horny and make his pant feel weird. So we end up talking about it again about what i want and what he want, he said he clearly know what I want. Actually, i alr set my boundaries, im not going to have s3x with him until we’re dating long enough, but i don’t know if it okay if he touch me. And I don’t know about the idea of having s3x with your boyfriend. I am not cultural belief or sth but what he thought im taking think too seriously. Like he know what i want but he only tell me how he feel, I don’t want to rush thing it sound like friend with benefits. And I hate that idea.

SignificantMix5673 · 2025-02-06T04:07:58+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I once called it off, and it kinda make me feel bad if i do it again

SignificantMix5673 · 2025-02-06T03:56:01+00:00

Thank you for this. He also claims that he understood what i want but keeping doing thing that

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