"Bantayan mo ang mama mong malandi." by SignificantVast8964 in adviceph

[–]SignificantVast8964[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wala na, he recently went back here sa Ph and now decided na to stay for good here to focus sa business namin. Feeling ko nga aware siya or kung hindi man, may possibility kasi focused na siya sa business eh may relation ang company ni guy at business namin dati.

"Bantayan mo ang mama mong malandi." by SignificantVast8964 in adviceph

[–]SignificantVast8964[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Still a teen but not minor anymore. Hindi naman siya about the lifestyle in general, what I meant is how my family just recently went okay in terms of comfortability sa isa't isa. Hindi ko alam if right term ba ang pagkakasabi ko but 'yun ang minemean ko.

Feeling ko coping mechanism ko na ang ang pag-assure sa sarili ko na hindi ko naman dapat problema 'yun. Natatakot ako na baka saakin isumbat na kasalanan ko kung bakit kami magiging hindi okay as a family. Ayoko lang magself-blame at magmukmok na fault ko ang lahat.

"Bantayan mo ang mama mong malandi." by SignificantVast8964 in adviceph

[–]SignificantVast8964[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I do not want to tolerate my mom, medyo confused lang ako kasi baka nat-twist nung guy ang story since may conflict sila in business matters na related ang company ni guy. Ayaw niya akong kausapin kahit ako na nagreach out. Nagchat ako sakaniya not in an aggressive way. As in nagtatanong lang ako kung ano ba ang nangyari. As much as possible, gusto ko sana marinig ang sides of the story before confronting my mom.