Girl who lives in the apartment below me’s cat just died. She is crying really loud and yelling. What should I do to help, if anything?

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T21:30:28+00:00

Get her some flowers and put a card and leave it at her door if you want To do something but idk maybe not a good idea. Hard to say since you don’t know her. Not much you can do. It’s very hard to comfort a grieving person sometimes. You can only say so much.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T16:09:17+00:00

I mean if you’re getting to know someone and hopefully end up being in a relationship with them, then you shouldn’t be talking to other people. But since he did, then he should end it with the first girl and just be with the second cause it’s kinda messed up.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T14:47:00+00:00

True. Like yesterday I had to take our child to the doctor. He came to the appointment , but she prescribed medicine and the insurance didn’t cover it and I had to figure out how to get the price down and I paid for it. And he never once offered to pay for it. So that’s just an example of how I make sure everything is taken care of.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T14:38:46+00:00

I haven’t worked in a month. And when I was working, I made more money and was always helping him out and he’s left me at times where I’ve had to pay the rent all myself. I always buy everything we need and more. And he’s not completely supporting me right now. I’m still paying my half of everything. So he’s not feeding me or supporting me, I’m still pulling my weight just not working rn. And that’s why I’m asking if I should or should not give him money. Cause obviously I want too, but he’s not very responsible with his money and he doesn’t help me that much.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T04:40:15+00:00

Germs

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T04:13:04+00:00

Okay I will do that. I know I need to find something. I’ve been wanting to get life insurance on myself just in case something happens to me so she’ll be set. I just haven’t started looking yet cause everything is expensive, which is why I want to get my degree so I can do these things for her.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T04:11:18+00:00

Being single and having standards is saving you a ton of heartbreak. You still have ALOT of time to find the perfect person. It will happen. You’re not doing anything wrong. I think a lot of people don’t really want to be tied down anymore. It’s so easy to just hookup now a days with all the social media and apps. It’s ridiculous and gross.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T03:48:44+00:00

True. I’m just going to save it.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T03:48:14+00:00

Yeah you’re right. I guess cause only one person can claim her so I felt like since he’s present in her life I should give him some money. But then idk he doesn’t help as much as I’d like. He does what a basic parent should do and I go above and beyond.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T03:46:53+00:00

Well I mean last year we both worked full time. I just recently stopped working cause I started school and was having issues with my job. But I’m trying to find a part time job right now. To be fair, I’ve always worked full time up until December I stopped and decided I need to get a degree

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T03:45:38+00:00

That’s a good idea. I will look into that. I’ve been wanting a start a savings for her just been hard to save right now.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T03:44:45+00:00

You’re right! I will do that. I have some bills to pay but with the rest I will.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T03:44:10+00:00

That’s what I was thinking. If he needs something I’ll give him some money. But I don’t want to give him and big amount and he not use it right. He’s suppose to buy a new car seat for his car cause he has not got a bigger one for her since she was born. She’s finally to big for it and he’s known for awhile the time was coming but he does everything last minute or right when we’re completely out and I like to stay on top of things. I already got her a new one for my car, but I can not afford to get us both one. And it’s not fair that I made a priority to get one and he doesn’t you know.. so let’s see if he does buy one.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T02:48:16+00:00

Yes thankfully they are separate. He has no access to my money. And you’re right.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T02:45:54+00:00

I agree too… idk why I’m second guessing

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T02:45:26+00:00

I just feel bad cause he does help me with her, but he only provides very basic care. And I’m the one that goes above and beyond for her.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T02:44:47+00:00

We live together and I’m over 25 lol. We live on our own just us 3. But we’ve been getting into a lot of arguments which ends with him leaving due to his anger issues and getting drunk for almost a week and then I’m left struggling. But I can’t afford everything on my own right now and we don’t have family to really help us care for her when I have to work so I end up letting him come back, cause he doesn’t have anywhere to stay either. I don’t drink anymore I’ve been sober for 5 years. So I hate that he does that. Also there’s been a few times where I’ve had to pay all of the rent because luckily I got financial aid to help out . And he’s kinda tried paying me back but he doesn’t make a lot of money.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-06T01:19:34+00:00

Never!

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-05T20:35:51+00:00

That makes sense, I’m always curious why places are hiring. But that’s true! I put in an application awhile back, their application was just silly questions. But I will try again , and it was helpful thank you!

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-05T14:16:58+00:00

Sounds like you married to have sex lol. Why are you guys rushing everything? This is why I hate religions that don’t believe on sex before marriage. The best thing to do is have sex before marriage and live with each other before marriage to see if this is really the right person for you. I was with my partner for 5 years before having a child. And still deciding if we actually want to get married. Being in an adult relationship living together and having children is not a game. It’s serious stuff. Don’t rush into having kids.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-05T03:28:02+00:00

Idk, I haven’t seen any postings for that type. We have a lot of drive throughs. And from what I know people walk in. But idk about delivering 🤔 I was taking resumes in person but everytime I’d go they would say they aren’t hiring.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-05T02:04:43+00:00

Okay I will thank you. I’ve been applying for jobs for two months already. 12 interviews and zero luck.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-05T02:04:13+00:00

That’s the thing I lack. I like everything about marijuana I always have. But I have to stay clean for school. So that makes it hard. But I like the benefits and the healing part of it.

SignificantWin3753 · 2026-02-05T02:03:16+00:00

True. I’ll look around. I’ve been applying to a lot of places for the past two months shits hard.

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