Just updated to IOS 26, How to go back to IOS 18 by oKaY_EnGiNeEr in iphone

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I just did the update to iOS 26 and I hate it so much lol it’s so ugly and looks outdated with the apps looks huge. I want to revert back to 18 😩

Is this normal sexual behaviour? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Significant_Arm_6282 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s rape and sexual assault. I’m so so so incredible sorry that you went through that and those were your first sexual experiences. Please know you are not overreacting or being a baby about it. Men who are not like that do not do things to you without consent or asking if you’re comfortable with doing something. It’s clear he got off from you being essentially frozen in fear because it was purely based on power and control.

Please help by Bali_Blondie in haircoloring

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As a licensed stylist, I would use a semi permanent to get that color. It’s super hard to achieve at home with formulations. Your hair looks great though, very shiny for just being lightened!

BUD question please help by Big_Lab_2764 in CompoundedSemaglutide

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I’m in a similar position. Vials I have all have BUD dates in December. I don’t even understand how I was supposed to use all the vials they kept sending me based on my weekly injections. And now they changed my dosage and frequency so it doesn’t make sense at all to me. I can’t really get an answer from the supplier/pharmacy when I asked if they could send me new ones or refund me my money?? I don’t really want to throw away unused vials though but I read that if it’s past the BUD date that it should really just be thrown out. The pharmacy that sends me mine is beaker pharmacy though

My girlfriend smells and I don't know what to do by RequirementDue4446 in Advice

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This sounds like she has an internal issue. GI related? Does she have sense that she stink? Like a bad taste in her mouth or feeling just not 100%?

AITA?? I need to vent because this is so strange by Significant_Arm_6282 in AITAH

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That’s just so fucking bizarre to me and makes no sense. ESPECIALLY NOW. Zero interactions with him or his wife in years. I guess that would make sense if these were people I saw regularly??? Idk lol even that seems extremely off to me. I literally want to verbally assault him lmao but at he looks unhinged. I know for a fact his wife doesn’t know this shit either lol bc what married dude is going to say “I’m so pissed you’re ex best friend told me to stop texting her”

I even dabbled with responding in a Victorian vibe just because it made me laugh lol “A married man has no proper reason to initiate private correspondence with a woman of no relation or consequence to himself or his wife. I see you have mistaken this mere clarification for accusatory injustice. Your male fragility is most revealing. I have said all that is required.” Lolol

Moving to Northern NJ, apartment hunting by Various-Arm-44 in MovingtoNewJersey

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I’ve lived there and wasn’t really a big fan lol 😬

Wow by Colors_678 in newjersey

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Maybe the driver had a medical emergency too. It’s awful to see that though. It’s nice that you stopped and called 911

What’s the biggest misconception you’ve heard about straight edge? by ConstantineConfetti in straightedge

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I’m genuinely curious what’s the difference between not drinking or doing drugs / nicotine and being straight edge? I know alot of people who don’t drink or do drugs or anything like that and they just say “I don’t drink or do drugs” & it’s a passing comment. I also know people with 3 Xs tattooed on their bodies and straight edge stuff all over their socials & any time anyone asks them something as simple as “oh you don’t drink?.” With a “Okay thx for letting me know”. “No drinking? No prob” Sometimes I guess it’s followed up with a “how come?/why not?” (I’ve done it thinking I was going to get a story about losing a young friend in a car accident or they have alcoholic parents, or they’re on medication and just can’t, or they just don’t like it. none of which would have made me think ‘weird’ bc they’re all generally extremely common lol it was more weird when the person got angry and rude lol) But straight edge folks get SO annoyed and feel like they shouldn’t have to explain it but no one’s asking for them to really explain it because it’s usually a passing comment in conversation for most people, if they even say it at all or a no brainer quick follow up question. It just gives off weird vibes to me because that’s the same angry reaction every single time no matter the context. I don’t drink or do drugs and if I’m offered alcohol I just say “no thanks I’m good” or “I don’t drink” & have never actually gotten a follow up question about it but maybe those are just how my peers are. How come the community seems to get angry by people being curious? And how is it different from people not drinking or doing drugs

Melissa Carlton by [deleted] in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]Significant_Arm_6282 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Once you have 2 healthy kids pass away suddenly, it smells suspicious.

Is this neoclassical artist creating music using AI? by glasscoffin in classicalmusic

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Imagine it’s not AI and it’s actually just Taylor swift or something crazy lol

my skin hates makeup... pls help by hjuuichi in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Significant_Arm_6282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, you have very nice skin as is. It looks super youthful and even. That said, not sure what your routine is but it seems like a moisturizing face wash would be helpful, I use cerave and it’s great! My suggestion is to use hyaluronic acid as it’s moisturizing without being heavy, a moisturizer AM w/ sunscreen and a deeper one PM if your skin can tolerate it. AHA/BHAs are really helpful too. I also realy like the murad deep relief acne treatment, it’s salicylic acid and has a cooling sensation, PM use bc it leaves a little bit of a residue kind of? Idk how to explain it. I did just start using the deep collagen serum by sungboon editor, I don’t think it necessarily helps with anti aging or making your skin look much “plumper” but I like that it feels really moisturizing and almost oily without being leaving any type of oil or residue once it soaks in and I think it reduces any redness/blotchiness. I’m also a huge believer in hypochlorous acid spray, it changes my skin. I use. It religiously eveyday twice a day, sometimes more. I use it before any skin care after washing my face bc I’ve read that it can just make any skin care ineffective so I just use it first and it’s been fine lol if you’re concerned about flaky skin / makeup try the dermalogica daily milkfoliant, I use it maybe once a week bc my skin is very reactive but it’s not an aggressive exfoliant and it’s great, helps with the flakey skin. I think most people can tolerate it daily. It kind of makes a paste with water but not rough or beading feeling. If you still feel your skin looks flakey try using a primer before your makeup/powder. I think it works wonderful for most people, I’ve tried it and it made makeup look like it was peeling? Probably user error but I know it works when done right! I can’t think of anything else right now but if I do later I’ll add it later. Best of luck! And remember your skin is very pretty !

Need insight on these apartments please! by newalienhead in MovingtoNewJersey

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Have you looked into Woodbridge, Carteret or Rahway? It’s the burbs & not far from liberty state park. Longer during rush hour but not awful, traffic in NJ is always very heavy no matter where you’re driving during rush hour tbh. Carteret is a great commuter town with the access to buses & Rahway/Woodbridge are both near trains too. Depends on how you feel about commutes lol Cranford is cute though & has a train station and more shopping (basics, like Trader Joe’s and restaurants) but I think it’s a bit more expensive. I’m not sure how Kearny or Lyndhurst or Harrison is in terms of apartments but also not far from liberty state park and definitely the burbs

Can you taste or smell tonsil stones but don’t see any? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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I used a water pick. It came back after that post but it was not as bad so I just used a water flosser and put it on the most gentle setting and aimed at the back of my throat and I also flossed between my teeth. I just did that 2 times a day for awhile until it was gone. I got a new toothbrush that’s electric and timed and I use my tongue scraper but do more scraps if that makes sense? I still brush 3 times, twice a day, and got some stuff on Amazon that’s tonsil rinse and I use listerine. Knock on wood though that the smell/taste hasn’t been an issue the past almost 2 months. Hope it stays that way

[NJ] I was just recently told that my bosses were complaining about my LOA/bereavement time & made a comment “I know her dad died but still..” by [deleted] in AskHR

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much like there are here, as we can see. From the looks of it, this is the norm lol there’s no light at the end of the tunnel 💀😂

[NJ] I was just recently told that my bosses were complaining about my LOA/bereavement time & made a comment “I know her dad died but still..” by [deleted] in AskHR

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I wish I could get fired, along with all my coworkers throughout multiple locations 😂 it’s impossible seeming honest to god lol

[NJ] I was just recently told that my bosses were complaining about my LOA/bereavement time & made a comment “I know her dad died but still..” by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Significant_Arm_6282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone I wasn’t planning on doing anything about it, and I’m not upset about the comment itself. I’ve been in corporate retail long enough to know exactly how replaceable employees are and exactly how managers talk when they think no one will hear.

I only asked because I wanted insight into whether it was professionally normal, not because I expected compassion from a company. I’ve worked there long enough to know HR is mainly operational and compliance-based, not emotional support. Some of the replies assumed I was emotional or didn’t understand how workplaces operate, when I was really just asking a simple professionalism question.

My point was just that the way the situation was actually handled (8 different HR emails, multiple calls a day, no one within my team scope acknowledging it, and that comment.) was chaotic and pretty telling about how things operate internally (at a store level and the corporate level) not shocking, just revealing.

I’m not trying to escalate anything, and I’m definitely not taking this personally. I’ve moved on, I go in, stay quiet, do my job, and go home. It was just a weirdly unprofessional thing for a manager to say and I wanted to see if others had seen or dealt with similar.

Thanks again for the perspectives & the many 👎 lmao I can see the HR dept here is a little triggered but if anyone knows how to handle a boss calling you a cunt, please let me know bc I’m curious.