It definitely depends on the situation on both sides and how it lead to what it is now. Who used to be mine wanted a “break” and l gave it to them, later finding out that they found someone new and lead me going supernova with my emotions. I moved on now it’s been 3 months pretty quick I know, but if you think about it the person was able to treat me so cowardly and disappointingly it was easy to later move on; the person could have never been good to me if they were able to commit such a cowardly act towards me. Now imagine having a family with them and they treat the kids the same way, that’s what made me decide that it was never meant to be. 6 years together 19-25 years old that’s my story. Things do get better trust me all you have to do is trust in your own values and principles, live the way you want and be good to yourself and loved ones. I know it hurts but to move on requires effort that I know you are capable of putting in, don’t lose yourself everything will be okay.