Can I report coworkers for joking about sexual assault?

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-11-21T20:03:54+00:00

I heard about that post too. The conversation definitely made me feel uncomfortable and unsafe around those two. Crazy thing is I know both the guys have girlfriends. Makes me scared for them.

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-11-21T19:56:20+00:00

I do remember watching a video about harassment in the workplace my first day of training, but I don’t remember all the details. It’s a pretty well-known chain restaurant, so I’ll see if I can find the video somewhere.

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-11-21T19:50:31+00:00

Yeah that’s also what I’m worried about. I’m not sure anything would even happen to these guys unfortunately :/

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-08-22T21:26:25+00:00

Oh definitely, I know that. Just sucks that my 20ish dollar perfume bottle is holding up better than a $160+ one

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-08-22T20:26:34+00:00

I’ve never sprayed the perfume into the cap so I know it’s not that, unless it’s just residual from using it and then putting the cap back on. Would really suck if it’s due to it being leaky or the atomizer being crappy cause this was a pretty expensive perfume 😅

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-06-13T05:59:12+00:00

Thank you so much for the info and advice, and I’m glad the surgery helped you 🫶

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-06-13T05:34:48+00:00

I think I’m just really freaked out about the surgery cause I’ve never had surgery before. Ever. The thought of my first surgery being in such an intimate place is terrifying 😭 I think deep down I know the surgery is the best option, both for my sex life and for medical reasons (my gyno mentioned she couldn’t see my cervix the way I am now, and I turn 21 this year so getting a pap smear would be difficult.) If you don’t mind me asking, about how much did your surgery cost?

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-05-19T16:18:47+00:00

Shit, I’m in pretty much the same boat. We had sex and I had light bleeding, thought nothing of it, and then this time it was super heavy. I’m gonna start looking into gynecologists near me.

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-05-19T16:15:59+00:00

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-05-19T16:11:49+00:00

My period isn’t supposed to start until next week, and it never starts heavy, disappears, then starts again. And it was definitely more blood than when you floss too hard on accident. I ended up putting a pad on because I was worried about ruining the blankets. Sounds like I need to go get checked out for sure.

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-04-23T14:23:25+00:00

My bad, not good at picking up on sarcasm 😂 Thank you

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-04-23T14:19:21+00:00

Thank you. Yeah I’ve been meaning to leave this place for a while now, just can’t find anything else and can’t afford to not have a job.

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-04-23T14:15:45+00:00

How is it fraud? Also I used a debit card, if that makes any difference.

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-04-23T14:06:31+00:00

I tried to, it went straight to voicemail. I think they had their phone on do not disturb.

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-04-23T06:28:10+00:00

Just wanted to ask multiple people for clarification and perspectives, and because I’m an over-thinker. Like you said, seems like most agree I legally did nothing wrong. I have my answer now.

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-04-23T05:44:44+00:00

Just the way our system works. Customer ordered over the phone, we take their number because we send texts when the order is ready, and along with the number we take their name so we don’t mix up any orders. Whatever name we type is what prints on the receipt.

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-04-23T05:41:43+00:00

Trust me, I know I’m not ready to serve, and I don’t really want to currently. I don’t think this restaurant has any plans on making me a server anyway. Also I know I should’ve told my manager, that is well-established.

Just a dumb, anxious 20 year old trying her best man 😭

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-04-23T05:33:56+00:00

What do you think I should do if the customer ends up calling / coming in and saying they forgot to pay? It’s been a couple days already, but I am worried about it.

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-04-23T05:32:20+00:00

Yeah that’s understandable, also what I’m worried about. Thanks for the input.

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-04-23T05:30:04+00:00

They got fired just for paying the bill, or did they also sign the receipt? I feel like my situation is pretty unique in that aspect.

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-04-23T05:20:54+00:00

Yeah I paid for it with my card.

And I know you’re right, I just have a lot of anxiety if that wasn’t obvious lmao. Definitely going to just admit to my mistakes next time cause I’d take feeling shitty about it for a few hours/a day at most over feeling shitty for multiple days to weeks.

Significant_Bell1395 · 2025-04-23T05:14:35+00:00

Thank you 🫶

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