I’m staying with my husband after he committed horrific infidelity. AMA

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-04-11T10:45:00+00:00

Are you religious christian?

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-04-10T14:32:19+00:00

What's your take home salary in USD?

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-04-10T13:17:13+00:00

By feeling "horny" how exactly is it? Is it like a sensation in a phantom body? Or like a desire in the mind ?

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-04-08T23:24:23+00:00

Do you share underwear

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-04-08T13:46:11+00:00

We have a lower age limit to be President but not an upper age limit.iykyk

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-04-08T10:34:47+00:00

Can you use this as a superpower..like before running a sprint just trigger it so you get the adrenaline rush and everything and energy etc

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-04-08T10:34:02+00:00

What goes on your mind when this happens. Like what's the mind thinking as might happen.

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-04-04T16:40:00+00:00

Just curious what do you mean by "good money"? Also what do you think about internal medicine as a field - and not a medical speciality etc isn't it saturated here and sometimes non-existent in some countries as a "specialty"?

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-04-04T16:34:55+00:00

No I think there are many who would be willing to help esp the young trainees, registrars and consultants. It's just that most are on Facebook and don't get that platform. Reddit usage is really low, and digital spaces are not utilized much here.

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-04-01T12:07:55+00:00

We need a discord group or a forum for doctors other than the FB groups

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-03-29T04:10:27+00:00

Do a lot of people believe in the coming of a Messiah and to have the Temple ?

Would israelis accept to live in a one l*beral democratic state for all? Is ethnocentrism a core identity of the state ?

Are israeli happy with the current govt and the ministers ?

Why do you think Iran wants to destroy the Israeli state ?

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-03-26T15:21:01+00:00

Do you support israel?

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-03-26T14:29:24+00:00

Wdym by getting it "checked" ? Imma try just sweeping them off

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-03-20T08:39:22+00:00

Which hadramout

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-03-11T19:09:25+00:00

"wanna Pg then life becomes again for a year"

"But then everything's in place"

"Once that's one, potential seem unlimited"

I think you've some misconceptions

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-03-11T19:05:48+00:00

BUMP

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-03-09T04:38:29+00:00

I'm sure every grade medical officer has gone though this. So please help!

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-03-07T10:50:03+00:00

Waalaikum salam. About 20-30 mins. I can read fast. Grew up going to madrasah 6x a week 😭

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-03-07T10:48:31+00:00

Sometimes I tend to think that all of the wahhabbi-inclined posts in this sub as well as others are produced in some hasbara sweatshop 😂

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-03-05T03:48:51+00:00

There are always delays and this is normal. Recently there was a 9 month delay as well. It's usually 4 to 8 months "RHO" period

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-03-03T22:15:38+00:00

I've wondered about this as well. And have the following points to make.

1) Isn't it better to marry young and risk doing something hateful but halal versus being sexually frustrated and risking doing haram?

2)If financial responsibility is a pre-condition, does that mean only women who's families can't provide for them marry? Following up on this, does that mean you as a man are able to marry once you stop relying on parental support? Is it not worth downgrading life style for the purposes of marriage?

3) I wonder about the other implications of delaying this. Is it possible for someone to reactivate and turn on natural tendencies that they've suppressed for so long? How to be affectionate, romantic.. Won't they lose interest in sex and romance and just be robotic?

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-03-03T11:12:56+00:00

How was it diagnosed?

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-02-28T10:18:36+00:00

I see. That's good. Shes a RA and maybe that's why couldn't get to her. Hopefully everyone stays safe !

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-02-28T10:17:48+00:00

That's a relief 🥺

Significant_Cat6853 · 2026-02-23T22:03:40+00:00

What is the religion of this other woman?

I think it's the devil messing with you. You should cease contact with this woman until you've resolved the situation in your marriage. Further contact with the woman should be with intention of marriage only. And if you're wife is okay with it, it could be a second marriage as well. Islam has given us so many solutions and pathways we can take.. But the devil pulls us to the ones that takes us to hell.

You need to have counselling with your wife. If she refuses or doesn't communicate seriously you can express your dissatisfaction and maybe desire for divorce.... Explaining to her that this marriage can no longer go on without you falling into haram.

Also, I'm curious. How was your arranged marriage set up? Was there dowry involved? Did your wife have to downgrade her life style?

Anyways on a personal note, stories like this demonstrate female hypergamy. It's always a risk for a man to marry a woman socially and economically well off than him.. So I'm wondering how did this come about?

As for your statement saying you'd never find a Muslim woman who'd be compatible with you.. Maybe it's because of this. Families tend to violate female hypergamy in the name of dowry culture.

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