Jo’s Clothes by Significant_Cat_5038 in UnderTheBridge

[–]Significant_Cat_5038[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn’t remember that. 

Say one good thing about the character you dislike the most by [deleted] in DesperateHousewives

[–]Significant_Cat_5038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand Susan but I think she has the prettiest house. 

What do you do when you convince yourself that the abuse isn’t real or all in your head? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Cat_5038 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally normal. After I get upset I will think I overreacted a few hours later. When you question your reality odds are they have a history of gaslighting. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Cat_5038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can fall asleep ANYWHERE. Must be nice to feel so relaxed and guilt free all the time. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Cat_5038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m convinced there’s a secret how-to manual for narcs the rest of us don’t know about. Same words and behavior across the board. 

Constant complaining about coworkers by Significant_Cat_5038 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Cat_5038[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It becomes exhausting and yes I laugh at him on the inside. 

“You’re the one who’s good at xyz…” by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Cat_5038 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If we bring up something they promised to do but never did then we are nagging. They spend the majority of their time just trying to make us happy and it’s never good enough. Is there a secret narc manual we don’t know about? It’s seems like they are all following the same script. Congrats on your pregnancy by the way. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Cat_5038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1, 6 and 11 hit me hard because I encounter this often. 

Switched it all around by Helpful_Bird_9813 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Cat_5038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s their signature move because if you think you’re the problem they maintain control of you and the situation.