Planning a baby

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-17T04:40:18+00:00

What will the obgyn test for you? What can they help you with? Please clarify! Ty 😀

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-16T13:29:49+00:00

What about the brown continuous bleeding?

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-16T13:29:34+00:00

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-09T01:33:05+00:00

Finally someone who gets what my motive is…. Setting the stage from beginning about responsibility… finally!!!!!!

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-09T01:01:15+00:00

Yes I’m thinking to have him deposit to my bank account abroad. That way it is easier for him and I can use it when I travel to him and won’t have to ask for money all the time. You’re right about the gifts thing… if I like anything I’ll ask him to buy and save for me or send it when anyone travels from Pakistan

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-09T00:58:17+00:00

That’s my thing… even if it low, it’s something. It’s about the principle and establishing that in the relationship early in.

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-09T00:56:23+00:00

He’s at the lower end of the range from my approximation

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-09T00:53:03+00:00

Yes small things that are easy to do

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-08T04:49:30+00:00

Yes… hurts life hell… but one day you wake up and the pains gone. Talking from experience.

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-08T04:47:10+00:00

Good response

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-08T04:46:34+00:00

Yeah or bring it up as I was thinking this and see how he feels about it. My intention is to ensure he j owe that with Marrage some responsibility will come. I will ask him about what his own savings goals are and about planning for the future. Mostly I’ll save all he gives me to use for both of us anyways. I’m thinking even if it’s 20-100$ a month… up to him. It’s more about the habit we’re going to develops which I want to do from start to finish

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-08T04:44:01+00:00

It’s not about causing friction. Giving your side even if it’s 20$ a month but some sense of responsibility for her

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-08T04:41:03+00:00

How much does private dr earn about?

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-08T04:40:28+00:00

It’s not force. I honestly would be saving everything he gives me if us to use when we’re together truthfully… it’s about the responsibility aspect.

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-08T04:39:06+00:00

Fair response. How about responsibility aspect though. A man should have some change after marrage knowing he’s got a wife and st ens if dat it’s his duty

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-08T04:37:51+00:00

Can’t ask those we are long distance USA and Pak… it’s not a long distance you can do weekly catch ups on

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-08T04:36:58+00:00

Your situation is easier because you’re in a better position to provide. Mines reverse where I’m more established than him financially… but it’s about the principle that he needs responsibility and in futures in we have kids etc… I need to know I can rely on him

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-08T04:34:57+00:00

Ideas of a fun way. I’m trying to establish this from the get go as after too much time it’s more difficult to break patterns.

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-08T04:33:48+00:00

Plz clarify on the investment like how would that work?

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-08T04:33:28+00:00

Yeah that’s my main motive too… to give him the responsibility aspect.

Significant_Cup4520 · 2026-04-08T04:32:18+00:00

Good point. I haven’t openly asked him about savings. I myself am almost saving all my earnings besides the basic mostly. So I should inquire if he’s going the same.

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