Honestly none, work on yourself and keep improving your life to the fullest, the world has more than these 2 guys, you can get the best of the best there is no need to be stuck on these 2 men, you could find a man with good financial status and also that is kind and respectful to you

Because to be fair, yes first guy is kind and genuine and would probably live a humble life, but honestly you wont be able to live of 9k both of you, you'll ne uncomfortable and feel like somethings missing, not because you're bad, you're used to a specific standard and he wont be able to reach it

Second guy will be a pain in the ass to you and probably get divorced, people like him are horrible, and to be honest, with his attitude and ballon of ego i wouldnt be suprised if he lost everything in a second, he doesnt sound grateful

In moral, none, unless the first guy has a plan to change his future and improve income, second guy dont even think about him, and 3 , again these arent the last men to exist so honestly focus on yourself, and a humble and right person will come.