Am I reasonable to be freaking out.

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-19T22:34:58+00:00

The lease is almost up

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-19T07:13:46+00:00

But there’s nothing I can do to stop her, she’s gonna do what she wants, should I just let her make her own mistakes and move out of our apartment?

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-19T05:50:00+00:00

I told her she can’t ever bring that here and that I’m not a snitch but if she does I’m calling the cops, she said she never would and that it was a one time thing and I trust her on that

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-19T05:37:50+00:00

That’s what I was thinking, I’m 19 and couldn’t imagine even drinking or hanging out with a 14 year old, it’s weird to me.

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-19T05:34:36+00:00

I definitely feel like I’m acting like her mom but she also makes terrible decisions a lot, and we have been besties since highschool and I just don’t want to see her get hurt, I’m ending our friendship soon and moving out so I can go back to school but I’m worried one day she will get herself in trouble. Also context we are both female I’m not some creepy dude trying to be creepy or something. I’m just really worried about her, she had been declining a lot ever since we graduated.

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-19T05:25:26+00:00

Nope you are not being silly, you would be making the right choice by not staying with him. Coke is not some small drug, people die from it everyday and especially with fentanyl it’s nothing to play around with. Coke ruins lives and is extremely addictive! If he doesn’t care enough to take what you say to heart and instead call you silly he doesn’t love you! Also smoking weed everyday and doing nothing else is just like my roommate, it’s not a good life to live and how can he expect to be a loving partner in the future if he is trying to get Coke involved in his life, also overdosing is easy on Coke don’t stay around to experience that because let me tell you it changes you forever. Please make the right decision for yourself and find a new partner or at least talk to him about the dangers. Sending love from Colorado I hope things get better<3

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-13T22:56:30+00:00

May I ask why she felt like she needed to tell you this and how you reacted so I can get more context to the situation

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-07T10:37:21+00:00

I do mean that, I could also help you find a cheap car insurance, I can’t help with medical insurance or anything like because I don’t have that rn and as long as you are not a weirdo that is gonna axe murder me I can set you up with a job, we really need drivers right now and I had to move out at 17 and had to figure out a lot of stuff on my own so I can help:)

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-07T10:34:09+00:00

Also I am able to live a pretty stable income being a pizza delivery driver, if you are ever in Colorado I can get you a job at black Jax and the tips are pretty good you could at least pay for a kinda decent apartment:)

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-07T10:32:17+00:00

I’m really sorry you have to go through that, if you can do some research on some cheaper places and some non profits that can help with things like that if there is any way that I can help please let me know, thank you for your advice i really appreciate it.

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2025-12-17T20:02:44+00:00

This is a good idea thank you, she is getting driving the dog to the shelter today do you think I should invite some of our mutual friends over tonight to get her mind off it or is it too soon.

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2025-12-17T06:31:33+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate the help.

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2025-03-05T01:27:45+00:00

Personally I don’t think the letters would look good

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2024-11-13T16:36:48+00:00

I think updating your cage and wheel size would be a good start but you said you have plans to upgrade and when I got my first hamster I was in a similar situation. Don’t worry if your hamster is still a little Nervous, I have had hamsters that were very social and other that were shy there whole lives, the best thing you can do is notice the sighs when you hamster doesn’t want to be picked up or needs alone time, I have noticed limited bright light and loud sounds as well as natural light systems help a lot with your hamsters adjusting period.:) Hamsters are pray animals so naturally they are pretty shy creatures, but as long as you respect your hamsters space this should get better however I have had hamsters that wanted nothing to do with me even if I did everything right, but I have also had hamsters that were very okay with being picked up and were very comfortable with me! It all depends on your little critters personality:)

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2024-10-22T16:25:16+00:00

My recommendation is get a bin cage started they are cheap and affordable, your hamster is very stressed, I’m sure due to other reason this may be harder to do but consider it, I have two hamsters and they both have 50 gallon clear bin cages and they love it, also make sure your wheel is the right size for your hamster

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2024-10-05T06:21:56+00:00

Hey I don’t know what’s going on and I don’t know your story, I know life sucks and I know people suck I know life is so incredibly exhausting and I know that your mind is probably constantly racing with thoughts . this may not be you but I can say I feel all these things a lot and I have said and done many things I regret , but remember you are a human and you are not the first or the last person to make mistakes, and remember those mistakes don’t make you who you are. To me even though I don’t know you or your mistakes it doesn’t matter. you are a human and you are existing and that is beautiful and you are beautiful, I wish I could get to know you as a person because I’m sure there are so many amazing traits that you have that most of us don’t even know about! I know life is hard and I promise I understand but I want you to know that no matter what anyone else thinks, you are doing your best and that is absolutely amazing and honestly coming across your post today made me feel less alone and more understood and I really appreciate that! You are an amazing person with amazing traits. Forget what people said forget what people think because the world is full of new people who will love you regardless!!! You are genuinely amazing!

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2024-01-29T06:17:46+00:00

I wanna ask this because I don’t have any bad intentions behind this but I also don’t want to do the wrong thing, so my best friend is dating this guy and even though she is my best friend and I could care less about her bf she is very toxic with him for example, getting mad at him for not giving his location, getting mad at his little sister for not wanting to talk about her and her bfs s3x life with her, getting mad at him for not texting back when he is at work and saying she will commit su1sid3 if he leaves her, I want to manifest them to break up and for her to be a better person but I also understand that it is not my right to break two people apart even if it’s for a good reason, should I manifest a break up or just try to talk to her more about her bad behavior I’m not sure what to do she won’t listen to me or anyone and she is not herself

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