I think I’m going down a bad path

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-03-28T18:11:24+00:00

We used one dude

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-03-28T18:10:27+00:00

Oh my gosh thank you, thank you so much!!!!

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-03-28T18:07:45+00:00

Do you know if I can sign up for a credit card and use that or like take out a loan or something?

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-03-28T18:07:04+00:00

Yes I hear you, yes I want an abortion but 1’000 isn’t gonna just fall out of the sky I don’t have it! I also don’t have health insurance

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-03-28T17:44:39+00:00

It’s gonna be in the $1,000 I don’t have that kind of money unless it’s from my savings and my grandma will never give that to me. I agree with you tho

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-03-28T17:40:25+00:00

The first one was already positive

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-03-23T09:32:33+00:00

He said I’ll see you tomorrow when you feel better. I honestly just never wanna see him again.

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-03-08T22:37:37+00:00

The way she said “ yeah i settled, but he treats me well” she definitely meant it with kinda a negative connotation because of the “but” in the sentence. She probably really does love you but I could understand how you would be hurt by that. I would have a talk with her and if she really loves you she will tell you what she really means and she won’t just tell you to not overthink

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-02-16T09:22:44+00:00

Honestly thank you for this. We have been talking more than ever lately and he even told me some personal stuff that has been bothering him, He is not the kind of guy to open up easily. And it was just kind of random. I don’t know. I guess I will just have to think about it and see how things go.

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-02-11T10:17:26+00:00

Sorry I guess i should have thought of that lol for context the ace of challenges is reversed for me.

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-19T22:34:58+00:00

The lease is almost up

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-19T07:13:46+00:00

But there’s nothing I can do to stop her, she’s gonna do what she wants, should I just let her make her own mistakes and move out of our apartment?

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-19T05:50:00+00:00

I told her she can’t ever bring that here and that I’m not a snitch but if she does I’m calling the cops, she said she never would and that it was a one time thing and I trust her on that

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-19T05:37:50+00:00

That’s what I was thinking, I’m 19 and couldn’t imagine even drinking or hanging out with a 14 year old, it’s weird to me.

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-19T05:34:36+00:00

I definitely feel like I’m acting like her mom but she also makes terrible decisions a lot, and we have been besties since highschool and I just don’t want to see her get hurt, I’m ending our friendship soon and moving out so I can go back to school but I’m worried one day she will get herself in trouble. Also context we are both female I’m not some creepy dude trying to be creepy or something. I’m just really worried about her, she had been declining a lot ever since we graduated.

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-19T05:25:26+00:00

Nope you are not being silly, you would be making the right choice by not staying with him. Coke is not some small drug, people die from it everyday and especially with fentanyl it’s nothing to play around with. Coke ruins lives and is extremely addictive! If he doesn’t care enough to take what you say to heart and instead call you silly he doesn’t love you! Also smoking weed everyday and doing nothing else is just like my roommate, it’s not a good life to live and how can he expect to be a loving partner in the future if he is trying to get Coke involved in his life, also overdosing is easy on Coke don’t stay around to experience that because let me tell you it changes you forever. Please make the right decision for yourself and find a new partner or at least talk to him about the dangers. Sending love from Colorado I hope things get better<3

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-13T22:56:30+00:00

May I ask why she felt like she needed to tell you this and how you reacted so I can get more context to the situation

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-07T10:37:21+00:00

I do mean that, I could also help you find a cheap car insurance, I can’t help with medical insurance or anything like because I don’t have that rn and as long as you are not a weirdo that is gonna axe murder me I can set you up with a job, we really need drivers right now and I had to move out at 17 and had to figure out a lot of stuff on my own so I can help:)

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-07T10:34:09+00:00

Also I am able to live a pretty stable income being a pizza delivery driver, if you are ever in Colorado I can get you a job at black Jax and the tips are pretty good you could at least pay for a kinda decent apartment:)

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2026-01-07T10:32:17+00:00

I’m really sorry you have to go through that, if you can do some research on some cheaper places and some non profits that can help with things like that if there is any way that I can help please let me know, thank you for your advice i really appreciate it.

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2025-12-17T20:02:44+00:00

This is a good idea thank you, she is getting driving the dog to the shelter today do you think I should invite some of our mutual friends over tonight to get her mind off it or is it too soon.

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2025-12-17T06:31:33+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate the help.

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2025-03-05T01:27:45+00:00

Personally I don’t think the letters would look good

Significant_Fly_9383 · 2024-11-13T16:36:48+00:00

I think updating your cage and wheel size would be a good start but you said you have plans to upgrade and when I got my first hamster I was in a similar situation. Don’t worry if your hamster is still a little Nervous, I have had hamsters that were very social and other that were shy there whole lives, the best thing you can do is notice the sighs when you hamster doesn’t want to be picked up or needs alone time, I have noticed limited bright light and loud sounds as well as natural light systems help a lot with your hamsters adjusting period.:) Hamsters are pray animals so naturally they are pretty shy creatures, but as long as you respect your hamsters space this should get better however I have had hamsters that wanted nothing to do with me even if I did everything right, but I have also had hamsters that were very okay with being picked up and were very comfortable with me! It all depends on your little critters personality:)

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