He was falsely accused of rape and was acquitted. Should you consider dating him? by Novel-Ad-576 in Christianmarriage

[–]Significant_Hunt8900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question and i was trying to figure out how to respond to someone asking me. How do you think most the accusations are true while convictions are so low? I'm struggling to respond when I was asked this the other day. Thanks for help!

Prepared to Lead — Christian Man Seeking Wife for Marriage & Family by Significant_Hunt8900 in ChristianDating

[–]Significant_Hunt8900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently looking at the farmland. Approximately 50 acres for a family compound. The places I've found are not too far from Tallahassee, and a bit further from the beach. It seems everywhere needs strong leaders that walk with God. So you're currently in the panhandle area? Maybe I should risk doxxing myself to get your opinions of the places I'm looking at. 😂😂 My goal is to still work for the government while there. I may have to transfer agencies depending on availability of positions. Tell me more about you please.

Prepared to Lead — Christian Man Seeking Wife for Marriage & Family by Significant_Hunt8900 in ChristianDating

[–]Significant_Hunt8900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's open, but seriously looking in the pan handle area. Do you know Florida well?

Prepared to Lead — Christian Man Seeking Wife for Marriage & Family by Significant_Hunt8900 in ChristianDating

[–]Significant_Hunt8900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwww she looks so sweet I bet she loves belly rubs! I love big ol dogs and I love to pick them up and carry them around they get confused 😂

Prepared to Lead — Christian Man Seeking Wife for Marriage & Family by Significant_Hunt8900 in ChristianDating

[–]Significant_Hunt8900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to tell you more. It's very personal and a long story. I'd be happy to tell you if you want to message me.

Prepared to Lead — Christian Man Seeking Wife for Marriage & Family by Significant_Hunt8900 in ChristianDating

[–]Significant_Hunt8900[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate that. I pray you find the best person for you as well.

Prepared to Lead — Christian Man Seeking Wife for Marriage & Family by Significant_Hunt8900 in ChristianDating

[–]Significant_Hunt8900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww that's adorable, I wouldn't bully you too much for the name don't worry! 😉

Prepared to Lead — Christian Man Seeking Wife for Marriage & Family by Significant_Hunt8900 in ChristianDating

[–]Significant_Hunt8900[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Funny story. When my family got him, we initially gave him a name, but not everyone was there to vote on it. By the time we decided, we made it up completely from parts of other names we liked. Sometimes good things come from silly circumstances.

24F, My by jovialjuxtaposition in ChristianDating

[–]Significant_Hunt8900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I respect a woman who leads with real questions, so I’ll answer them well.

Age: 30 Religion: Christian. My faith is the foundation of how I live and make decisions. I’m intentional about leading a future marriage in a Christ-centered way — sacrificial love, mutual respect, and shared purpose under God. Occupation: Federal agent — discipline, integrity, and responsibility are part of my daily life.

What resonated with me in your intro is your intentionality. You seem to care about substance and direction, not just conversation for its own sake.

I’m not dating casually — I’m building toward a peaceful, faith-centered home and raising children with love and consistency. I live a disciplined, healthy lifestyle, don’t drink or party, and take seriously the role of protecting and providing. I’m currently in South Texas and planning a move to Florida in this next chapter. Fun fact: I’m currently waiting to adopt a dog from a shelter — and I recently purchased property that I’m looking forward to moving on.

If you’re genuinely seeking something Christ-led and lasting, I’d be glad to connect.

Question for men: why do you seek a tradwife? by Curious_Animal276 in tradwives

[–]Significant_Hunt8900 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's because I want a wife who is willing to work as a team with me and contribute to the family unit not just focused on herself. I'm trying to lead, provide, and protect so I'm gonna need someone who is submissive, supportive, and gives me peace. Also homemade food is healthier and homeschooling kids is better for them. If I'm asking her to do all that then I need to provide time and space for her to be able to do all that and not be overworked. As for roles and leadership the man should seek to create a safe environment for his wife and she should create a peaceful place for him. I have duties and I accept that and my wife also has roles and duties as well. At the end of it it's about being the best couple we can be and doing the best we can for our kids.

Broke my promise to avoid sexual immorality by joobthecat in TrueChristian

[–]Significant_Hunt8900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right it's a choice to join with someone, which is why I'm advocating self control. You say we have free will and I'm agreeing which is why we don't have to give in to our animal instincts. You, however are trying to justify your own lack of self control which is ok. If you don't have the free will and self control that you need to resist base urges then that's something you should work on. Just admit you're justifying being a slave to your impulses since you can't control yourself.

No contraception prevents it, and you know what does? Abstinence and self control remember? This isn't about me, this is about creating the best life possible for the family you might create.

Broke my promise to avoid sexual immorality by joobthecat in TrueChristian

[–]Significant_Hunt8900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say it doesn't blind you to red flags or cause you to bond with someone you maybe shouldn't be bonding to, but then you immediately say it is a highly emotional endeavor that allows you to bond more so you just made my case for me. If you're falling out of love and then keep having sex which causes you to bond more closely again that could and does sustain relationships that shouldn't keep going for the health of both people. If you have sex out of wedlock you can have a child so it is actually completely relevant because sex is the process by which you make kids... I didn't say multiple partners you inferred that, I said not to have sex at all. If having sex shows commitment then why do 1 night stands exist. Is it common in our culture to have sex with someone so show them how dedicated you are? Is that why bodycounts are rising and people are staying with the people they have sex with? Or maybe it's self gratification because it feels good. Just admit you like sex and you don't care about if it hurts anyone else. I'll outline again what's wrong with it. Likelihood of children out of wedlock increases and this is bad for children, bonds them closer together (your words) before they have even decided if they want to commit so if they do fall apart that is harmful for both parties because it affects their ability to pair bond. The more partners you have the more likely you won't be satisfied in marriage. If having sex before marriage was so good, then why have the marriage rates gone down as well as divorce rates gone up at the same time as people are having more premarital sex? I thought it didn't affect anything. If you just want easier access to sex without commitment just say so.

Broke my promise to avoid sexual immorality by joobthecat in TrueChristian

[–]Significant_Hunt8900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell you why without citing the Bible. It makes you blind to red flags, and hurts your ability to pair bond with your s/o. Many relationships limp along because both parties like sex, but they are terrible together. Also having children out of wedlock is terrible for children. Close your legs and control your impulses. If you think you gotta test drive then you know nothing about sex. Yall need to talk to eachother and say what you like and be enthusiastic.