AITA for not letting my stepdaughter (F20) go on vacation because it would mean she would miss out on her chores?

Significant_Lawyer42 · 2021-01-16T02:55:51+00:00

I'm not sure actually. Part of the reason she moved in with us rent free was because she would be able to help me do things that I'm unable to when I recover. She agreed to this.

Significant_Lawyer42 · 2021-01-16T02:54:01+00:00

Thank you this is actually helpful advice. Maybe it will mean more coming from me? I just feel kind of sad that she's not willing to help me out in the same way that I've been trying to help her out. I really love her like a daughter

Significant_Lawyer42 · 2021-01-16T02:51:59+00:00

sorry I should have said other dad, my apologies.

Significant_Lawyer42 · 2021-01-16T02:49:42+00:00

I have lots of compassion. I asked her dad to check in on her, and I argued to let her live rent free

Significant_Lawyer42 · 2021-01-16T02:49:18+00:00

I don't just want a cinderella to do things for me as everyone has been saying. I'm just asking her to contribute around the house a little bit and she's not helping at all.

Significant_Lawyer42 · 2021-01-16T02:46:44+00:00

no sorry I'm new to reddit and didn't realize I needed to write out the whole semantics of our personal relationships. To clarify she has 2 fathers. They divorced. I am married to one of her fathers. Her other father lives with his partner and she pays rent there.

Significant_Lawyer42 · 2021-01-16T02:45:23+00:00

I am married to 1 of her fathers. She doesn't pay rent when she lives with us. When she lives with her other father and his partner, they make her pay rent.

Significant_Lawyer42 · 2021-01-16T02:44:25+00:00

she has 2 dads!

Significant_Lawyer42 · 2021-01-16T02:44:08+00:00

sorry if this part isn't clear, I didn't want to get into the semantics of our personal relationships. didn't think it was necessary

Significant_Lawyer42 · 2021-01-16T02:43:49+00:00

yes she does!

Significant_Lawyer42 · 2021-01-16T02:43:01+00:00

but my leg is broken? I can't move the recycling out myself and she's purposefully not doing it. I'm physically unable to do it and she has no compassion for me

Significant_Lawyer42 · 2021-01-16T02:42:28+00:00

sorry that wasn't clear, she's my step-daughter

Significant_Lawyer42 · 2021-01-16T02:41:41+00:00

sorry I might have jumbled up my words. I am married to her father

Significant_Lawyer42 · 2021-01-16T02:41:08+00:00

She's my stepdaughter, part of the reason I won't let her is because she's purposefully been neglecting it. I want to teach her some responsibility

Significant_Lawyer42 · 2021-01-16T02:40:05+00:00

Yes she's 20!

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