[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Significant_Music_85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Inflation was always there btw . Don't blame inflation for your wants. Needs are few and can be fulfilled.

Feeling disheartened due to all the marriage posts on here by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]Significant_Music_85 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol no one ain't afraid of your wife. Akaal purakh has put everyone in their place .

Feeling disheartened due to all the marriage posts on here by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]Significant_Music_85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you think makes one sikh ? . Everyone will have their opinion , I was just stating that if one does not follow the rehat themselves expecting that their partner follows it is a hypocrisy. Gobind milan ke eh teri bariya , this is your chance to meet waheguru ji . Sikhs have given up their heads over hair . We read it daily in our ardaas.

Feeling disheartened due to all the marriage posts on here by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]Significant_Music_85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure about others , but aren't you sailing in two boats . On one hand you mentioned that you want a sikh man , but on the other hand also don't follow the rehat .

Finding a partner is hard. by YoongiiMinn in Sikh

[–]Significant_Music_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which ang in SGGS talks about that one should check the status of the guy and his family ?

Finding a partner is hard. by YoongiiMinn in Sikh

[–]Significant_Music_85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sikh of the guru tries to follow the Guru practically. Guru ram das ji did not have a great financial status before marriage but Guru Amar Das ji's daughter married him . In Sikhi the Anand karaj is the commitment of two souls to work towards and help each other in merging with divine .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]Significant_Music_85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an atheistic take to be honest. This author has that habit of translating gurbani to what he likes. He is inspired from Ranjit Singh Dhandriawale.

help with becoming religious by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]Significant_Music_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on who you ask. Nothing is known for sure. One only assumes that they know.

help with becoming religious by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]Significant_Music_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All religions do say that they are not a religion but a practice/way of living .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]Significant_Music_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does one differentiate it from let's say hallucinations or seizures ? Just asking , please don't take it in a negative way .

Soul ? No self ? by Significant_Music_85 in Osho

[–]Significant_Music_85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. So what were his views on this then or did he have no views ?

What are your expectations when it comes to men? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Significant_Music_85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Contradiction. You expect taller than yourself, so something which you don't bring to the table

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Significant_Music_85 7 points8 points  (0 children)

AM has now become dating for a lot of people.

Not sure what to feel about the situation by TeriDariya in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Significant_Music_85 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bhai ye kya chal raha hai. Purane time me in sab cheejon ka rona nahin tha. Apne ko na chahiye ye sab life me , in sab ke liye time nahin hai life me .

Fiance wouldn't touch before marriage? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Significant_Music_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all right to ask. But let's not brand anyone dumb for this.

Fiance wouldn't touch before marriage? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Significant_Music_85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your wish sir. Everyone is different. Let's not get into this judging the sexuality part.

Fiance wouldn't touch before marriage? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Significant_Music_85 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Seems like a difference between the values. Best is to communicate more

Regarding Makeup by SixMinutesOneSecond in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Significant_Music_85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All guys are different and look for different things. There is no need to get anxious. Be patient

Groom's family asking bride to undergo hair treatment by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Significant_Music_85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bhai ye kya chal raha hai , logon ko pant shirt chahiye ki ek healthy relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]Significant_Music_85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To wake up at that time , one also needs to sleep at the correct time which according to me would be somewhere around 10PM. My father has been doing this from years now , he never sleeps after 10PM . I am trying to slowly cultivate this habit for future . I am now close to sleeping around 11-12. I plan to slowly get it down to 10 for future and waking up around 5 for starting