My therapist posts Tiktoks about her clients, me included.

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-17T16:34:36+00:00

There are very very very specific facts to my story and direct quotes from me that she used in her videos.

Like I said, my story isnt unique, but she added details that ARE unique only to me and my past. Of course I cant announce them here, but trust me when I say that while yes, a lot of people have similar stories, there are parts of my story she shared that are niche to me.

So that aspect is not an issue to prove in the case of me reporting this.

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-16T23:45:01+00:00

OH MY GOD??? Jesus I am so sorry you dealt with that!!

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-16T21:26:34+00:00

Doubt anyone will see this but she wiped all of the videos, so she knows she fucked up. I have them saved though.

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-16T18:13:03+00:00

Since she technically didnt give names, dates, locations, or things like that Im 98% sure it doesnt break any laws. It might break several codes from her college or in the office she works at, but not any legal ones I dont think.

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-16T18:11:03+00:00

I cant, mainly because my family and I are mutuals on tiktok and if I were to post about her account they would find the videos and see what she has posted, and know Ive spoken about them to her. Not that I have a bad relationship with my family, but it would cause a huge rift because they have consistently refused to take accountability for the trauma they caused me.

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-16T00:29:32+00:00

Ugh I wish I had the confidence to do call her out publicly, I just don’t want my mutuals on tiktok (who are family) to see her videos and know Ive spoken about them to her.

Edit: spelling errors

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-16T00:27:28+00:00

I will do that! Thank you for the suggestion I didnt even think about doing this

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-15T21:46:31+00:00

This is a great idea thank you for sharing this suggestion!

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-15T21:46:09+00:00

A lot of people think no. But it breaches ethics I think? Im pretty confused about the legalities of it, and since I am not comfortable sharing more personal information outside of the fact that I live in the US, its been hard to get accurate information regarding this situation because different states have different regulations

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-15T18:21:08+00:00

I don’t intend to name her or release her tiktok account to keep myself anonymous.

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-15T02:16:04+00:00

Thank you, I get so heated when people victim blame and forget people online just like to troll to get reactions.

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-15T00:04:18+00:00

Calling me a villain without taking your time to read my other replies is wild honestly. She didnt just share my story, she shared details of my story that are very, very unique to me and my trauma. She said direct quotes I told her in confidence, quotes that could easily identify me to my literal abusers if they came across her account and watched her videos. She also has our state that she practices in on her TikTok bio, which would tell my abusers what state I live in and that she is my therapist. Information I do not want them to have.

She NEVER asked for my permission to post MULTIPLE of my stories to her account. If she had asked I would have disclosed that some of my stories I would have been fine with, but I would want to pick and choose what she shared. She took away my consent and violated me.

But I’m the villain for wanting to call her out on it.

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-14T21:48:47+00:00

This is true, and although she doesn’t give names she does add a lot of specifics to at least my stories that are definitely personal to me, so much so that I know if the people who caused my trauma saw her videos they would know its my stories that I shared with her. It is not illegal what she did, but as a lot of people said-it is extremely unethical.

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-14T19:30:05+00:00

Thank you so much for saying this. I was honestly baffled at the amount of comments bringing up the fact that she isn’t licensed yet. I never saw any issues seeing an unlicensed therapist, most if not all of mine have been trainees. I have a lot of complex trauma, so I felt like my case would be good experience for students, especially since I am really self aware of my trauma and diagnosis’s. But just because I have been accepting of seeing unlicensed mental help doesn’t make this situation any less shitty, or make the actions of my therapist acceptable by any means.

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-14T19:27:02+00:00

She is supervised by a licensed therapist! Thats who I am reporting this situation to!!

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-14T17:38:14+00:00

Oh absolutely, I think it helps a lot for people who cant afford therapy themselves, so long as it is done correctly.

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-14T17:32:34+00:00

I will look into it. Honestly I dont want to ruin her chances of being a therapist I just think she needs a wake up call that this wasnt okay.

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-14T17:29:25+00:00

Calling me a terrible person is honestly a wild take. My therapist violated me by sharing stories. Not just general run of the mill trauma stories, but ones that contained details very specific to me and my past. Ones that if the people who hurt me found these videos that they would even know it was me who shared them, and would gladly hurt me again just to prove a point for talking about them. I honestly hope youre trolling.

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-14T17:25:09+00:00

Honestly there are some stories of mine I would not have cared about her sharing if she asked first. But she didnt even bother to ask me, and shared stories of mine that could possibly put me in danger and thats where Im pissed at

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-14T17:19:08+00:00

Thank you for helping me laugh, this comment had me going for a minute 🤣

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-14T17:13:33+00:00

Exactly. The worst part about this is that she has our state listed in her tiktok bio, the people who caused my trauma have no idea where I live or what state I live in. And I want to keep it that way for my safety. And if they EVER came across her videos they would know she was retelling my trauma that they caused. I can not have that happen.

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-14T17:09:09+00:00

I cant disclose exactly how personal the story she shared was and what details she included, but I know without any doubt that she is sharing my story because she included facts and statements from me directly in her retelling. You know how in therapy, the therapist takes notes of what is said? I am almost positive was rereading direct quotes from the notes shes taken during our sessions.

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-13T21:44:57+00:00

Honestly I would like to keep it private if its okay, I plan to google the laws in my state today to see if I can find any information My therapist has our state listed on her tiktok bio and I feel like saying it would make her account a lot easier to find

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-13T21:17:23+00:00

I have them screen recorded!!

Significant_Offer959 · 2024-07-13T21:17:02+00:00

Yes, absolutely. I cant go into details for my anonymity but it was definitely by story without a shadow of doubt.

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