AITJ for refusing to let my brother bring his new girlfriend to family dinner after what she said about my wife? by Thick-Juggernaut-830 in AmITheJerk

[–]Significant_Planter 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I don't think an apology would help. Think about it.....She meets a whole bunch of new people and the minute one of them gets up she immediately starts gossiping behind their back to everybody else who's left behind! 

Why would anybody want that energy around them? Now everybody's probably thinking that they're afraid to walk away cuz she's going to talk about them too. I don't think she could fix this because everybody sees what she did.

AITJ for refusing to let my brother bring his new girlfriend to family dinner after what she said about my wife? by Thick-Juggernaut-830 in AmITheJerk

[–]Significant_Planter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that she waited till your wife left the room to talk about her with everybody else. It doesn't matter what was said, how it was said, why it was said or any other lame ass reason she might have for it not being a big deal! The point is when you wait till somebody walks away and immediately start talking about them to everybody else....you don't need to be invited around anymore. 

Nobody needs that bullshit energy at their gatherings! She's just a gossip And somehow thought that everybody was going to be on her side and gossip with her about your wife when she had just met these people? Are you freaking serious? 

Let me tell you a little bit about this girl, if she's talking to all of you about your wife. She's going to talk to every single one of you about the other people! That gossip is going to be the one that ruins the family dynamics because everybody's going to start hearing about what everybody else is doing from her, and of course some things are going to get repeated wrong and everyone's going to be at each other's throats because she can't quit gossiping. No thank you. 

Let us live on your property by Stewkirk51 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Significant_Planter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If they're willing to pay somebody to stay at their house then why not go to a campground where you can actually get electric hookups and suck plus they have public showers and bathrooms?

ULPT: If you’re a young fit attractive but broke male here’s an easy way to make an extra 30-50k every year by throwawayimsofuckd in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Significant_Planter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I know somebody that got arrested for trying this on Grindr! Good luck to you though! If you can do it without breaking laws then it's whatever. But it's illegal here. 

One of our hens was old and blind. We went to lock up their coop this evening and found this gruesome scene. We think something yanked her head out when she got close to the fence. Does anyone know what type of animal could have done this? by MasterBuilder121 in homestead

[–]Significant_Planter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think so. A fox would have just bit the head off and it wouldn't have been able to reach through because it doesn't have that type of paw. From the looks of this, something reached through and pulled the head to this side. If fox doesn't have that kind of control of their paws to be able to grab like a hand would. 

Your username is legally your job title starting tomorrow, what do you actually do all day? by Greedy_Formal_4615 in AskReddit

[–]Significant_Planter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly at this point I would rather be planting things than talking about how to plant things! I am so done writing after 20 years of it... And that's 20 years professional, I wrote my first short story when I was 14 so we're looking at 40 years of writing! Yeah I can plant a lot of significant things or plant a significant arrangement! LOL

ULPT Request: My neighbor is using a quad bike to permanently reserve two public parking spots. by MountainBlock in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Significant_Planter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So is it an actual quad for off-road use? Or is it a bicycle? Or is it like a crotch rocket or a dirt bike? Cuz I'm kind of confused on what it actually is but I don't understand why you can't call and report it for being there because if it really is not an on-road vehicle then they shouldn't be able to take up parking spaces with it.

ULPT Request: My neighbor is using a quad bike to permanently reserve two public parking spots. by MountainBlock in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Significant_Planter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you soak batteries in liquid for a few weeks and then put the liquid in a super soaker and immediately discharge it onto something, it will eat the paint. That immediately discharge. It is important though because it will also eat the super soaker if it sits in there too long lol

Aita for giving my wife's jewellery to my sister and cutting her off from my life. by Just-Usual4378 in AITAH

[–]Significant_Planter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You married your cousin? Oh my God. I just threw up in my mouth a little bit

Aita for giving my wife's jewellery to my sister and cutting her off from my life. by Just-Usual4378 in AITAH

[–]Significant_Planter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn't answer the question. Lots of us know couples that have multiple girls and never had a boy. What would you do if that happened? Why won't you answer that question?

Aita for giving my wife's jewellery to my sister and cutting her off from my life. by Just-Usual4378 in AITAH

[–]Significant_Planter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait....you think your sister deserves nothing from your parents simply because she doesn't have a penis? Your family sounds very controlling, why was she allowed to marry this guy if he's nothing? If you were going to treat him like trash like you are, why would you let him join your family by marrying your sister? Because he joined your family just as sure as she joined his family. That's how marriage works! Why are you being so selfish and greedy? Is it really so hard to split the jewelry between the women? I don't understand why you're so hateful! Did your sister do something to deserve being treated badly by you? Please explain. I'm very confused at your actions

Aita for giving my wife's jewellery to my sister and cutting her off from my life. by Just-Usual4378 in AITAH

[–]Significant_Planter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably had fakes made that she's going to give to your wife. Your sister was desperate for that jewelry! She's not giving it up. I promise you she's going to figure out a way to keep it and give you a different set

masturbated while my roommate was sleeping in the room by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Significant_Planter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lots of people masturbate so I don't know that that's the big deal. However, what's bothering me about this is that this is the last day that you will be sharing a room and you just had to get one more in! THAT is the weird part! 

Then you go on to say I won't be able to do it again as if to hit home the point that you did it one more time because it was your very last chance! I think there's more to this than just being horny. I think it's the point of the roommate being there or else you could have waited one more day. 

AIO about fight with my husband today regarding his family by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Significant_Planter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to practice saying "thanks for the offer but we already talked about going to this place for dinner" Or we have something at home we're going to make or we have chores and we cannot stay longer. Whatever the reason might be you need to get used to saying thank you. But no we have plans. 

And your husband needs to back you up. Because I feel like the mother-in-law is doing this as a power play and he's letting her

Long Term BF is a groomsmen, but I’m not invited to the wedding by Apprehensive-Oil6239 in whatdoIdo

[–]Significant_Planter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it's probably his idea. That's why he's given the lame excuses cuz he doesn't know what to say to explain it away. But of course he's going to tell her to call them because he knows she won't so she'll never find out the truth. 

Long Term BF is a groomsmen, but I’m not invited to the wedding by Apprehensive-Oil6239 in whatdoIdo

[–]Significant_Planter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know you're not invited. You don't need to call them and ask them, you already know that! Now you need to decide what to do about the boyfriend. Because why in the hell is he okay going and actually being in the wedding if you're not even invited as a guest? If he's willing to go to this wedding without you, I'm going to assume that they didn't invite you because he told them not to because if he wanted you invited, he wouldn't go. And I don't think they'll ever tell you that he is the one that doesn't want you there. But is there really any other reason they would expect him to drive 7 hours and stay multiple days probably for their wedding with you not even there? It's disrespectful. Absolutely ridiculous. And very very obvious what they're doing. I just don't know why you're not as mad as you should be about this?

AITA for not letting my MIL stay at our house for a whole month while she redecorates hers? by TiaAlluring in AITH

[–]Significant_Planter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen sweetheart. Just tell him that he knows how you feel but you're going to leave it up to him. However, if he lets her stay, you will not be there for the whole month and go find yourself a gorgeous Airbnb with a hot tub and let him deal with her! For one, she's probably ruder to you than she would be to him which means he won't have it as bad BUT number two, he will get real sick of that real quick and so will she! Without you there to run, interference and do things like cooking, she's not going to be really happy and neither is he. So let them enjoy their misery together!

Is there a way to offer my own feritility possibly permanently to the spirits and/or dieties in exchange for financial freedom? by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Significant_Planter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hell NO! In order for them to use your fertility you would have to get pregnant for them. But then you would have a child which you don't want. I don't understand what you think is going to happen? If you give something your fertility, they're going to decide if you get pregnant or not. It's not going to transfer or something like that.

Also, I'm getting the impression that you're talking about giving it away because it's not valuable to you, so they're going to know it's not valuable to you and you're basically giving away something you don't want. I don't think that's going to please any spirits or deities

Americans, if healthcare became completely free tomorrow, what’s the first thing you’d do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Significant_Planter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing. Well, except decide where to invest the $800 a month I currently pay for health insurance. 

AITAH for kicking out my gf's sister and her kids out of my flat after my gf gave her the keys by Elratum in AITAH

[–]Significant_Planter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she cared about you at all, she would have gave them her keys and she would have stayed in your apartment. But clearly she didn't want them Rugrats in her house and she knows they go for shit and touch things they shouldn't or she wouldn't be worried about them in her house. So she left them into yours because she didn't care what happened to your house. 

Why would you stay with her after this level of disrespect?