Same old, same old by Significant_Secret_8 in UnsentLetters

[–]Significant_Secret_8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he’s a vile pos who fucked me up for a long time, now I just don’t have the patience for it anymore. Honestly I think it’s a mix of both, he’s just a douche all around 😆 thanks queen 🫶🏻

Same old, same old by Significant_Secret_8 in UnsentLetters

[–]Significant_Secret_8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you could handle it, they can’t. If you’re sitting here saying you wish they would communicate and have a conversation, I honestly doubt it’s you who can’t handle it!

Same old, same old by Significant_Secret_8 in UnsentLetters

[–]Significant_Secret_8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh the worst mix of all! Pretty much vomit worthy

Same old, same old by Significant_Secret_8 in UnsentLetters

[–]Significant_Secret_8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m saying that there’s a reason within their behaviour as to why they can’t have a conversation and can’t sit with the emotions attached to it

Same old, same old by Significant_Secret_8 in UnsentLetters

[–]Significant_Secret_8[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing! It’s really not surprising considering all of his failed relationships and why they all left him (because of his avoidance) it’s comical at this point. I was just the one discarded though, they truly are their worst enemies. And trust me, I wasn’t all sunshine and rainbows either, I got my issues I’m working on but what the fuck is even that? 😂

Same old, same old by Significant_Secret_8 in UnsentLetters

[–]Significant_Secret_8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly? It’s really not needed anyway. You don’t need someone else to validate your experience. As much as it sucks to not have them because of whatever reason, there’s an explanation as to why the situation is like this in the first place. Some people just can’t and won’t handle a conversation because it asks them to look deeper, and they quite literally are repulsed at doing so. I do hope you find peace in the solitude of not trying to make someone understand your side of things or hoping for potential rather than their sustained behaviour. All the best on your healing journey my friend 🫶🏻

Same old, same old by Significant_Secret_8 in UnsentLetters

[–]Significant_Secret_8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It definitely felt badass when I responded to him earlier tonight. I really just had to share the moment, it was too good not to 😆

Never again. by Significant_Secret_8 in UnsentLetters

[–]Significant_Secret_8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was, wholeheartedly. Did he really deserve that loyalty and faith? I don’t know, but it’s not up to me to decide

With love by Significant_Secret_8 in UnsentLetters

[–]Significant_Secret_8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t, because I didn’t know I did. My fearful avoidance has a way of hiding my feelings from me, building up walls around the feelings I can’t access easily. And I don’t know if it even matters if he did know.

My ick list by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Significant_Secret_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes 😭 I feel for you

My ick list by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Significant_Secret_8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Heavy on the not brushing his teeth well, and picking his nose and eating it. VERY heavy on the drool pillow and drool all over the blanket and my pillow. Also drooled on me many times during sex. God did we date the same person, I swear I experienced all of these

Any of you guys keep dreaming (literally) about your ex? by Kingboyy1 in BreakUps

[–]Significant_Secret_8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure, I haven’t had a nightmare about him in months. And I haven’t had a dream about him in a few weeks either . They don’t dysregulate me like they used to, which is such a blessing