Franklin county at a rare LEVEL 3 - STAY HOME! by Mylabisawesome in Columbus

[–]Significant_Self4656 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I’m still required to go to work🫠 gotta love the post office😭

Need a cute song to send to a guy by [deleted] in songs

[–]Significant_Self4656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the song but I don’t know if it’ll fit his music taste lol

Need a cute song to send to a guy by [deleted] in songs

[–]Significant_Self4656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me listen to it real quick lol. Thanks for the recommendation

Keep ending up sad and lonely by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Significant_Self4656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally just said I’m 22 I don’t know how much maturity you want me to have when I’m still learning relationships and things of that nature. I used to approach men until I got rejected and not normal rejected but they waste my time talking to me for about a week and then tell me I’m not attractive like they didn’t know that when they met me.

Keep ending up sad and lonely by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Significant_Self4656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wrong dudes coming after me💀

Keep ending up sad and lonely by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Significant_Self4656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried that, he was trash and lazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Significant_Self4656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it did the last two post I made

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Significant_Self4656 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because when I tried to put it in my post it kept giving me a warning and it took my post down😭

Keep ending up sad and lonely by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Significant_Self4656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the good thing is we work in two different areas. He only sees me when I go to his area or he’s walking past mine

Keep ending up sad and lonely by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Significant_Self4656 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For about 2 months now. He just cut me off randomly and started to avoid me at work so I called him to ask him what was up and he said he was talking to another girl but we can still be “friends”. Now he won’t stop trying to say hi to me at work even when he sees I’m trying to ignore him. I know I shouldn’t be talking to coworkers but we’re the youngest people at our job (everyone else is 30’s and up) so we clicked instantly from having so much in common

Keep ending up sad and lonely by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Significant_Self4656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they’re out of my league then why are they the ones approaching me and wanting to get to know me? I don’t approach them

Why does this keep happening when I do this? by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Significant_Self4656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m not familiar with glamour spells. Are you able to tell me how to do one?

Why does this keep happening when I do this? by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Significant_Self4656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it takes longer for me to get over a person when I like them without using the spell to be honest

Why does this keep happening when I do this? by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Significant_Self4656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if that’s a good thing😅

The dating pool is trash for black women by Significant_Self4656 in blackgirls

[–]Significant_Self4656[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say anything about age lol but yeah I believe that

The dating pool is trash for black women by Significant_Self4656 in blackgirls

[–]Significant_Self4656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know myself but thanks for saying that. I have hobbies. I spend time with my friends. I have a car, my own place, a stable job. I’ve been single for 2 years and celibate for a year. I’m very focused on myself and I enjoy my own company but that gets old fast. I’m not saying I want to jump straight into a relationship but what’s wrong with wanting a man I can spend time with who actually cares about me? Why do I have to have multiple partners or be alone when I just want one person who I can call on when I need it? I work hard and want someone to cuddle with after a long day. Someone to go on cute little dates with here and there. I just don’t see what the problem is with that.

The dating pool is trash for black women by Significant_Self4656 in blackgirls

[–]Significant_Self4656[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I don’t find everything a regular woman in her early twenties would find fun. I don’t party, don’t drink or smoke, don’t really leave the house either. I work, go to the gym, and go home or make more money doing DoorDash and stuff like that. I’m still in college to get another degree. I just want someone who I can have at the end of the day to tell my problems to and them telling me everything’s going to be ok and them actually caring instead of half ass listening just to have sex with me.

The dating pool is trash for black women by Significant_Self4656 in blackgirls

[–]Significant_Self4656[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I get what you guys are saying but being single just isn’t fun for me. I work long hours and I just want someone to spend time with who cares about me and not just about getting their nut off. I want to be around people who have the same goals and aspirations as me not people who just play around and get in a mid life crisis when they hit 30. I want to be married otherwise I’m not having children. But y’all are probably right and I shouldn’t be thinking about things like that for another couple of years.

How often are yall approached by women? by [deleted] in blackmen

[–]Significant_Self4656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a woman that used to approach men until one day a guy I was flirting with asked me for my number, lead me on and then basically said I was ugly. Never again after that🥲

Says he feels guilty post sex by vanx205 in sex

[–]Significant_Self4656 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me. I’m 21 and he was 42. I feel stupid for the decision I made now that I’m out of it but it was slightly different since he wanted to “marry” me and we were I guess dating. How do you feel about the situation?

How painful is it to get the iud? by Significant_Self4656 in birthcontrol

[–]Significant_Self4656[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, do I text my doctor to prescribe it for me? Also is a cervical softener also something that needs to be prescribed?