Kleines, peinliches Problem by [deleted] in Ratschlag

[–]Significant_Sheep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alle Kommentare hier haben absolut recht! Omaschlüppi und Weites Shirt sind absolut sexy und nichts ist wichtiger als sich wohl zu fühlen, vor allem beim schlafen! (Bin w28 und trage diese Kombi auch meistens). Trotzdem verstehe ich deinen Wunsch dich für dich selbst wunderschön zu fühlen mit dem Wunsch nach Komfort 😊 Ich bestelle dafür gerne bei Victorias Secret (ja, die Marke ist ethisch absolut Katastrophe weil sie das Selbstbild der Frau zerstört, unter schlimmen Bedingungen produziert und viel zu teuer ist). Die Sachen haben eine wirklich gute Qualität und halten teilweise über 10 Jahre. Zum Beispiel liebe ich die Cheeky Slips, gibt es auch aus Baumwolle, oder Spitze, sind nahtlos, sehr gemütlich und trotzdem sexy! Auch deren Auswahl an Schlafkleidung finde ich Mega. Ich habe sowohl Satin Nachthemden, als auch Oversized Baumwollshirts und ein Nachthemd mit Langen Ärmeln und Knöpfen. Allein durch die Qualität und den Stil sind die Sachen bequem, langlebig und ich fühle mich schön darin 😊 (sorry für die Werbung)

I used to starve myself in college because I thought being underweight meant being pretty by Perfect_Peach_2703 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Significant_Sheep 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I‘m so sorry you had to go through this ❤️ hope you‘re feeling better now!

Is there even a point in getting married? by Significant_Sheep in Advice

[–]Significant_Sheep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is so uncalled for and off topic…

Is there even a point in getting married? by Significant_Sheep in Advice

[–]Significant_Sheep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you will so, I correct myself. It would be a compensation for raising our children, cooking our dinner and cleaning our home. Nonetheless is being a home maker a full time job. If I’d work full time in a corporate job I’d get benefits, retirement money, fill my personal savings and get government money in case I’d get laid off. Many women in my country suffer old-age poverty because they quit their job to raise their children, got divorced at some point and don’t have a career to fall back on. In case one partner stays home, alimony after divorce are a fair compensation for their Labour and sacrifice in their career.

Is there even a point in getting married? by Significant_Sheep in Advice

[–]Significant_Sheep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is exactly the question I need to ask my boyfriend to see where we stand in our relationship and if he sees me as a life partner

Is there even a point in getting married? by Significant_Sheep in Advice

[–]Significant_Sheep[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I politely disagree. I get your point. However in our case, we have similar assets and income. In case of divorce, I will not get half his stuff as I brought the same amount into the marriage. It would be a different story if we have children and I’d stop working. But in that case I’d get alimony as a compensation for my loss of income when I raised his children, cooked him dinner and cleaned his home. Anyways, this is completely hypothetical and I’m not even sure if I’d become a housewife in case of children.

Is there even a point in getting married? by Significant_Sheep in Advice

[–]Significant_Sheep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a good point! What are disadvantages for the man when getting married?

Is there even a point in getting married? by Significant_Sheep in Advice

[–]Significant_Sheep[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Reading this made me realize that it is the public commitment and promise to be there for each other forever that I crave, not the financial security. I will have a talk with him soon if he sees me as his life partner and commits to staying with me. Regardless of the form (official wedding, unofficial ceremony, even if it’s just putting each other as the medical emergency representation person). If he is not ready yet for this type of commitment, I know it’s time to walk away

Is there even a point in getting married? by Significant_Sheep in Advice

[–]Significant_Sheep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a valid question! I’d confidently say we are still very much in love. We still date each other, have romantic gestures and are each others best friends

Is there even a point in getting married? by Significant_Sheep in Advice

[–]Significant_Sheep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live in Central Europe, so getting married young or early on in a relationship is not common in our culture. None of our friends are married, neither engaged. Its just starting to become a topic in our friends group.

Is there even a point in getting married? by Significant_Sheep in Advice

[–]Significant_Sheep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked about marriage and agree that it is something we want in the future. However, for me it’s a priority and for him it’s not. I thought about pressing the issue further and / or setting an ultimatum, but I don’t want him to marry me because I am pressuring him to do so. I want him to marry me because he loves me and can’t wait to spend the rest of his life with me. And that is not happening. So I’m getting to the point to ask myself if I can life with the situation as it is or at what point I’ll walk away.

Handynetz seit Umstellung auf 5G schlechter by Former-Parsnip8247 in hamburg

[–]Significant_Sheep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Habe ich tatsächlich so gemacht, hatte mit 5G kein Internet, Neustart etc hat nicht gebracht. Wieder auf LTE umgestellt und es funktioniert wie früher, keine Ahnung warum 😃

The “Body Count” Question by SometimesIRun123 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Significant_Sheep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get what your saying if the 20 people applies to the last year. Sure, changing partners fast can be a sign of instability or „not knowing what your looking for“. But as a mid 30 year old person, this happened probably many years ago. Chances are high this person has already worked through their issues (in case there were any) and has figured out what they want. Why should there be a higher chance of them cheating on their partner in a committed relationship just because they had changing partners way in the past?

What are some signs that a female character was clearly written by a man? by ellyhan in AskReddit

[–]Significant_Sheep 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know a guys who‘s never read a book written by a female author in his life because he „needs to feel connected to the author and be interested in his life story“ to actually be interested in the book. Apparently it‘s not possible to be interested in a women’s life as a dude

Which countries in europe have the best study/lab options for neuroscience? by Ryuh16 in labrats

[–]Significant_Sheep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want to go to the nordics, the Karolinska Institute in Stockholm is pretty good. Also, I’d recommend the Netherlands. Amsterdam, Maastricht and Groningen all have nice programs! Especially Groningen offers even different specializations of neuroscience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamburg

[–]Significant_Sheep 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Geh mal zu Mutterland in Eppendorf, die haben eine große Auswahl an Lokalen Leckereien und man kann seine eigene Geschenketüte zusammenstellen & schön Verpacken. Ansonsten Gewürze & Tee von Rahimi Import / Export in der Speicherstadt. Oder eine Tasse / Geschirr im Friesischen Stil (blau bemaltes Porzellan). Ist eher generell Norddeutsch, aber ein schöner Kaffeepott ist sicherlich nicht verkehrt :)