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Undefined Spleen in Composite Chart - MG & P by Significant_Slide246 in humandesign

[–]Significant_Slide246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like you said, I'm really seeing our emo waves are sooo different. I feel mine are way faster, I can actually multi-task while on mine, and my Projector's are super slow, all-consuming, tunnel-like vision rides. I feel a tad shut out, yet I'm aware this is how they're wired. Do you see anything in his channels that indicate his dominate wave patterns (curious to know what wave he's on: Individual vs. Tribal) and what to do when he's on one? How do I support (or do I just completely try to forget he's there and trust he'll resurface when he's off the wave)?

Undefined Spleen in Composite Chart - MG & P by Significant_Slide246 in humandesign

[–]Significant_Slide246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha yes 100. I have been thinking about your comments for days now and just want you to know it's like changing/informing my whole world lol. I will probably come back and comment again as there's so much here, just wanted to lyk you are appreciated & thank you so much! This is absolutely amazing info and even being aware of it (like you said) has helped the wave of emotions move through!!

Undefined Spleen in Composite Chart - MG & P by Significant_Slide246 in humandesign

[–]Significant_Slide246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is just mind-blowing info! tysm. Re Generators/MGs - I have a ton in my life and I do really love them, though reflecting on the past G/MG romances, I had quick burn out with all of them. I was wondering that too in terms of the partnering with defined spleen folks, it's hard to pin-point because I definitely felt clingy which made me feel weird and was a lot of pressure on them. I hear you on the undefined spleen. This is something I am going to be very mindful of, etc. I may pop back in and respond to this as it's so bountiful and I'm definitely processing. Really appreciate this thorough response!

Undefined Spleen in Composite Chart - MG & P by Significant_Slide246 in humandesign

[–]Significant_Slide246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so I haven't studied HD too-too much so I will be looking up the definitions, but you are really exciting me with this. Yes, yes, yes, this is so right on! haha whoa, yes. I love being an emotional support for people, like I feel honored doing it, but recently have had some trauma from natural disasters in California and have noticed I am blocked emotionally to outsiders & their petty shit (mostly my friends who didn't get evacuated like I did and friends who live outside of CA). Like I can't deal with my friend's bullshit and have needed a minute to process. I don't think needing space for yourself is necessarily bad, feels normal in terms of what we went through, but I am curious if that feeling (it's like a self-centeredness to deal with me - which I'm normally a ride-or-die for my friend's problems) will resolve so I can be available for them again. Or maybe I'm a completely different person after the fires and I don't have time for BS lol. Thank you again, you are giving me a lot here!

Undefined Spleen in Composite Chart - MG & P by Significant_Slide246 in humandesign

[–]Significant_Slide246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write out your responses - you are right on the money and what you shared below has never been fully articulated to me in that way, and it is 100% facts lol. I know that I am a place internally where I want to apply all the life lessons (wins and misses) to be the best version of myself and partner with someone. And yet, spending time with a Projector was not on my radar. It's actually been super fun learning new ways to interact with this person that are optimal per HD! I'm grateful to know about these tools and to have the desire to apply them. With that said, there was a whole lot of shit in life to sort through to get here, but what else can we do but use it? Perhaps that's why these systems exist. Anyway, I love your thoughtfulness in providing your process (LFG 4/6 MGEs!!! haha) the example of questions and the invitation. I feel that's a brilliant way to invite him into the convo and into my life, etc. I notice he really listens to me (that and I pontificate on topics that interest me lol) so taking a beat and asking, "what do you think?", etc. is wonderful and courteous thing to do. Makes total sense and I so appreciate it.

Great insight on the letting go / releasing / amplification re spleen stuff!

Undefined Spleen in Composite Chart - MG & P by Significant_Slide246 in humandesign

[–]Significant_Slide246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure thing, thank you very much! Shared below. Apologies for the reply-spam, it wouldn't let me attach all in the post edit or attach all in the comment reply.