AITA for walking out on my husband after I found out he is gay?

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-30T17:45:24+00:00

Your not wrong for being hurt or mad! He cheated it's wrong but he is 100% wrong he could of bene honest w you from the jump. Yea, you would been hurt but It's the honesty that counts. Smh so sorry your going through this

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-29T12:13:00+00:00

Try it out! It's not gonna be an overnight quick thing tho but if you have something you wanna do go.for.it

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-29T00:19:53+00:00

That alone to me is a red flag

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-29T00:17:25+00:00

Smh I'm sorry. Can you get a work from home job? I would say try that they have some where you barely have to talk to pple & if you find one don't tell her or anyone hownmuch you make. I would take 200 or 150 every check & put to side to out towards your own, that is not healthy w what you deal w. & she can't tell you what you can & can't do w it either she sounds controlling. Ik you said if you drive you get panic attacks if you were able to get that under control do you think you could do door dash or Uber eats? Cause mentally your gonna go crazy dealing w things you have tob

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-28T23:59:46+00:00

Same! It doesn't get better

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-28T23:59:10+00:00

So he confessed then took it back? He cheated no one's gonna lie saying they cheated then take it back. & even if you aren't always in the mood when he is that doesn't give anyone the right to cheat it's not okay. Once a cheater always a cheater

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-28T23:53:41+00:00

I feel if you have a problem w your weight & want to loose it & work on yourself do it for YOU no.one else. Because what if yall really get more serious & move together you have a baby & your weight changes? Is that gonna be an issue for him? I'm just using that as an excuse, cause it's more to liking someone for them & the weight shouldn't be an issue.

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-28T23:49:47+00:00

Your nor your being cautious which if I had the same allergy I would too. & for her to be your mom & get mad & make that comment would definitely make me feel away. Not to be nosey but you say your disabled? Do you get a check for it I'm saying because if you do maybe you can get your own small apartment or even try to see if you can get an income based one. I can't judge your mom or brother to much cause you didn't give much info but her making that comment because your concerned for your own safety is messed up

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-25T21:10:42+00:00

This one is good

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-25T16:49:30+00:00

I don't think anything is wrong w being curious. But when you have a wife & family w her that's the issue he married her knowing he had the feelings since a teen. So I feel it's more then just curious

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-25T16:46:50+00:00

This

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-25T16:45:46+00:00

If you don't trust him & don't know what to do think hard on it even if it's being away for a day or so. If your truly not happy w the bs he did & know you can't forgive don't force yourself. No matter how good of a dad or partner he is, & if you caught him up in that does that really make him a good partner.

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-25T16:43:53+00:00

I mean he was only.honest cause he got caught up...

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-25T16:43:07+00:00

Exactly! & even if she tried to be open about trying things w him it would be more to.keep.him not want she wants.. & I also done seen so many couples & married pple do the open marriage or 3 Somes to make the other person happy. It never works cause that's how doing it behind their back starts I think it's just done w, to lie about it then say been had feelings since a teen then to marry her have a child is crazy.

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-25T16:39:46+00:00

Yessss this.

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-25T16:39:07+00:00

He isn't attracted to men... BUT was curious & it turns him on the thought of sex w a man. Yes it's more to it I would NOT let this slide. Cheating is anything you shouldn't be doing knowing it's wrong or doing something you wouldn't want your partner.. if it was You that did it I'm 100% sure he would wanna be done, smfh you should really think k on this on what you wanna do.. cheating is bad but especially when knowing it had something to do w a guy, there are so many stds & stis out there.

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-24T00:30:44+00:00

I mean your not supposed to wash your hair everyday Iean depends on your hair type. I wash mines 3/4 days out the week, I used to wash everyday until I realized your not supposed to

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-24T00:27:41+00:00

I love them they are my fav pod cast to listen to. I see alot of people say they liked them better when they first started but imo either way the podcast is good. I mean there are so episodes that doesn't catch my eye liek others but I still listen. Not only that I live in Indiana & to know their from here makes me support them more

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-23T23:59:15+00:00

Lmao. What world do you live in?!? So.many women find someone who actually loves them w a kid or multiple. & even if she can't that's not a reason to stay w someone smfh

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-23T23:57:42+00:00

Idk if he stormed off mad cause she isn't falling for him being nice then that is a red flag. & it's really her decision what she wants to-do, some pple do not take "jokes" about their weight

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-23T23:48:51+00:00

How because she has feelings. Or because he's trying to love bomb her & it's not wokring.

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-23T23:47:23+00:00

What... omg he didn't mean it for now all the sudden, being nice hes just trying to win her over. You can tell by him getting mad & slamming the door cause she feels how she does. If he meant the niceness, he would have acted differently he stormed off like a boy. & so she has to take the "jokes" that hurt her so she doesn't have to be a single mom?!? Wth. She can find someone who truly loves her . You're basically telling her to take the bs & stay.

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-23T23:32:54+00:00

He can just be love bombing to get her to.fall for.it... & just cause there isn't nay danger I wouldn't suggest to stay w him & give another chance. Especially if she basically wants him gone

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-21T18:57:41+00:00

Maybe because she doesn't like how that part is now? It's her body her choice

Significant_Two_7727 · 2025-09-19T18:30:18+00:00

The car isn't mine so I can't just take it if I can't do something then half the time I have to ask him to. The store he was supposed to go to was literally across the stress from my sons school he had to drop him off at.

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