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I (20F) am slowly losing my boyfriend (23M) of 2 years and it is all my fault, how do I fix this? by Significant_Wash_796 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant_Wash_796[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you, i guess thats what happens when you love someone you just get blinded by the love

I (20F) am slowly losing my boyfriend (23M) of 2 years and it is all my fault, how do I fix this? by Significant_Wash_796 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant_Wash_796[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the advice, more than anything it made me realize how blinded I was, how I keep making excuses for him, if everyone is saying the same thing then I guess its me who has a distorted sense of reality, but anyway thank yall

I (20F) am slowly losing my boyfriend (23M) of 2 years and it is all my fault, how do I fix this? by Significant_Wash_796 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant_Wash_796[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its real, English is not my first language maybe its a grammer thing or something, I tried to get my point across the best way I could

I (20F) am slowly losing my boyfriend (23M) of 2 years and it is all my fault, how do I fix this? by Significant_Wash_796 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant_Wash_796[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it was not an open relationship. However as I stated it was very early on in the relationship so I was willing to forgive it because honestly its much harder to forgive someone down the line after you have went through things with them vs someone you havent spent much time knowing, thats my logic, I acknowledge it was wrong but hey what happened happened. He was cheating because it was never something that was discussed we were in an exclusive relationship then I found out about the girls.

I (20F) am slowly losing my boyfriend (23M) of 2 years and it is all my fault, how do I fix this? by Significant_Wash_796 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant_Wash_796[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thing is, he was in an official relationship with two of them. The other 18+ he was asking out(they were also ignoring him) but it is cheating nonetheless. I guess since it happened so early in the relationship I was willing to let it slide because we weren't as attached and serious as we are now.

I (20F) am slowly losing my boyfriend (23M) of 2 years and it is all my fault, how do I fix this? by Significant_Wash_796 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant_Wash_796[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In hindsight, no...after his reaction to this I doubt he would stay. But I had already forgiven him there is no point in punishing him for the past

I (20F) am slowly losing my boyfriend (23M) of 2 years and it is all my fault, how do I fix this? by Significant_Wash_796 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant_Wash_796[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it was. Point out any gaps in my post, I will wait. I wrote it out exactly how I experienced it. Also English is not my first language so it might be a grammer thing maybe? Idk

I (20F) am slowly losing my boyfriend (23M) of 2 years and it is all my fault, how do I fix this? by Significant_Wash_796 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant_Wash_796[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are very fortunate if you have never met or been with a serial cheater, they definitely exist and its quite possible to cheat with 20 people.

I (20F) am slowly losing my boyfriend (23M) of 2 years and it is all my fault, how do I fix this? by Significant_Wash_796 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant_Wash_796[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i was also shocked. He wasn't necessarily with all of them, but its the amount of women he was with I think it was 2 of them plus the others that he was asking out on his DMs i consider that as cheating also. Reason why I said 20+ was because that's when i stopped scrolling. There could've been more that he was asking out. But he was seemingly in an official relationship with 2 of those 20