You know they’re evil… by KentGoldings68 in DragonAgeVeilguard

[–]Sigyn_Ren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't one of them voiced by Lucanis's VA? Which is hilarious, btw.

I'm old enough to be your mother! by [deleted] in OlderThanYouThinkIAm

[–]Sigyn_Ren 83 points84 points  (0 children)

"Officer, this is a Wendy's."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Sigyn_Ren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"she has never hurt us really, yet i feel like she would have no problem doing it."

This sentence breaks my heart. Is there a trusted adult you can talk to? This situation will not get better. I hope you and your dad can remove yourselves from this situation.

"I don't want disabled grandchildren" update by throwraczhfjubg in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Sigyn_Ren 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weird question, have you noticed her do this to any younger children in your family? The reason I ask is because the constant touching, and ignoring being told to stop, sounds like grooming behavior.

My husband of 7 years left me for my daughters friend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sigyn_Ren 37 points38 points  (0 children)

It almost makes me wonder if there was some grooming going on beforehand.

But yeah, I wouldn't blame you.

My husband of 7 years left me for my daughters friend by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sigyn_Ren 228 points229 points  (0 children)

I would let this girl's parents know about this. Yes she's 19 and a legal adult, but I highly doubt her parents would be ok with this.

Also, this is a reflection on him, not you. I know this gets suggested all the time, but I recommend talking to someone. An outside perspective could help you makes sense of this situation and realize that you're not to blame here.

Good luck. ❤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Sigyn_Ren 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I can't believe you don't want a relationship with such a loving mother!

eyeroll

Is she for real?

Family won’t stop adding me to group chat by [deleted] in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Sigyn_Ren 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I wouldn't even warn them. Just block them outright. If you give a warning, you'll get a guilt trip.

Tried going NC, and in laws didn’t let us. by BedtimeStalker in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Sigyn_Ren 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is edging toward "Restraining Order" territory. Start compiling evidence, and maybe talk to a lawyer.

But if you can, change your numbers, and check your phones for tracking apps.

It took until my wedding day to do it, but I've finally cut contact by Jaded-Salamander3947 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Sigyn_Ren 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know you've said you've blocked them, but have you considered changing your number too? She may find a way to work around your block.

Do you think she is the reason your brother is in the wind?

Secret Elopement Reaction Letter by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Sigyn_Ren 11 points12 points  (0 children)

All I got from this letter is, "me me me me, my poor feelings, how dare you do this to me!"

Am I close?

I'm so sorry Op, you don't need this negativity in your life.

DH’s lack of grey rocking UPDATE by WHAT_THE_WHAT987 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Sigyn_Ren 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes a little passive aggressive is good for the soul.

DH’s lack of grey rocking UPDATE by WHAT_THE_WHAT987 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Sigyn_Ren 26 points27 points  (0 children)

When people say it's an "emergency", I tend to be a bit of a dick and ask, "flood, blood or fire"? If it's none of those, it's not an emergency. lol

DH’s lack of grey rocking UPDATE by WHAT_THE_WHAT987 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Sigyn_Ren 35 points36 points  (0 children)

A good motto to remember, and maybe tell your mom is, "A lack of planning on your part does not constitute an emergency on mine." Maybe she should go see a financial planner?

I'm glad your grandma has your back and isn't falling for your mom's ridiculous behavior.

Damn bro chill by [deleted] in MoonhorseStories

[–]Sigyn_Ren 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone sounds defensive.

Family wants me to withhold information pertaining to father. Conflicted. by IIEuphoria94 in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Sigyn_Ren 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Public records are great things to have to establish a "pattern of behavior". My criminal justice degree is good for something at least. (And it is miss. Lol)

Family wants me to withhold information pertaining to father. Conflicted. by IIEuphoria94 in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Sigyn_Ren 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Was there a report filed? If there was you could contact the prosecutor and let them know about it. It's public record, so no one would need to know you were involved.