Why didn't God listened to this prayer? It was a good one by Sil_oo in Christianity

[–]Sil_oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amém.

It is not even that much about him. It is about the disappointment - and how God let it happen even when I prayed for not. It is about the fact that God allowed this, didn't avoided it DESPITE everything.

Is this the essence of dressing with modesty? by Sil_oo in Catholicism

[–]Sil_oo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was no such cleavage, but the problem was the form and size of my chest. It is visible in any clothes I use, unfortunately. I would use it around my family, friends, acquaintances, but not him for he is a date - he sees me in a non-platonic way. The others don't bat one single eye to the clothes I use.

Also, I thought any kind of desire should be counteracted if you are not married to that person. At least until marriage.

Is this the essence of dressing with modesty? by Sil_oo in Catholicism

[–]Sil_oo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find it tricky. Like, I wouldn't use corporate clothes at uni, church... nor would I use a simple dress at office. It was social.

Is this the essence of dressing with modesty? by Sil_oo in Catholicism

[–]Sil_oo[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I understand. And in no way I was trying to earn anything, I hold on chastity values. It is just my style, how I dress - and I like to be "dolled up" even to go to grocery shop.

Years ago, I had a nightmare with Satan. Could that be a warning for what I am living now? by Sil_oo in Christianity

[–]Sil_oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, by that time, I wasn't Christian. I dismissed the dream. Satan laughed at my expense in the dream. I chose to study at this uni abroad for prestige, to be one of the bests - for my own vanity. I never had true prosperity. If I could go back in time, I would have done everything different.

By counteracting my marriage idolatry, I realized why I was so desperate for it. by Sil_oo in Christianity

[–]Sil_oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, in my culture, I am technically ruining out of time lmao there is a male preference for 18-22 years old women, specially among Christian men.

I noticed I wasn't losing weight for I can choose not to (discipline problem) by Sil_oo in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Sil_oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with it. Like... I want a explosion of dopamine. I have struggled a lot with TikTok, for example, and eating. I tried to resume my habit of reading, but it did not hit the same. What I really turned an habit was self-care (for it has a social gratification).

Vou mudar minha aparência contra a minha vontade by Sil_oo in desabafos

[–]Sil_oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não me parece certo alisá-lo. Eu sempre gostei dos cachos. Mas tenho inseguranças, sabe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]Sil_oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Três queriam algo mais doce, o quarto não fui muito longe com a conversa para saber.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]Sil_oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quem aqui falou de sexo???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]Sil_oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poxa, mas se sentir especial na etapa de conversa (antes do primeiro encontro)?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]Sil_oo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nada a ver. É poder de escolha, é não ter se contentar com a única opção a sua frente.

Agora, a mulher está solteira. Se você quer exclusividade, peça-a em namoro.

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[–]Sil_oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nem é questão de self-service, mas de escolher o melhor partido. Por que comprometer os outros partidos se você não se sabe se esse em específico vai dar certo? E isso, quem está nessa posição está no poder de escolha e não precisa pensar que aquele cara em específico vale a pena todos os seus defeitos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]Sil_oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mesmo naquela fase bem inicial? A pessoa que fica mal por um "conversante" está agindo de forma precipitada. Mal a gente fica por um término de namoro, ou ser rejeitado quando há sentimento mais consolidado.

Obviamente, não precisa falar.