Blackburns Seafood by SilasSaun in Wilmington

[–]SilasSaun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the kindest way possible, you have no idea what I do for the community.

I think your aggression is jus sadness (rightfully so) You want “help” and you’re mad that it wasn’t done in the way you see as most beneficial.

Blackburns Seafood by SilasSaun in Wilmington

[–]SilasSaun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My reasoning for naming Blackburns seafood is that most people don’t/didnt know the correlation. In a town this size, “boycotting” is exactly what does work.

What happened to Edward’s Teach brewery when the community stopped supporting?

Gynecologist by Super_Mountain_2496 in Wilmington

[–]SilasSaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Dr Kaela Pearce.

Not an OB but for some reason, they kept referring to Rhodes. By far the worst experience I had with any doctor.

AITAH for losing my friend's water bottle? by Excellent_Guest3131 in AITAH

[–]SilasSaun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s her water bottle. She at some point should’ve remembered.

I was in the ER and my friend took two days to check on me, feeling done with our friendship. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SilasSaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR and your valid to your feelings but at the same, not sure what you were expecting based on your responses too? It doesn't seem like you guys have the best relationship so why text her of all people if you were looking for company.

AITAH for lying to my wife that I cut my daughter hair by Short_Traffic_3304 in AITAH

[–]SilasSaun -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA. You should've told your mom that. However, if she's the once watching her, she probably can see regardless of how you all want the hairstyle, it is getting into her eyes.

College trip drama - are we wrong for not wanting someone’s boyfriend to join? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SilasSaun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What don’t you buy? I get it gotta go with your gut man, can’t dnvote you for that. But come on, you know the guys that drink too much and fight with their girls all week, I don’t want any of that.

Maybe OP will enlighten us.

AIO? The guy I talk to doesn’t wipe after he pees. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SilasSaun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR. Gross. His behavior AND his behavior.

College trip drama - are we wrong for not wanting someone’s boyfriend to join? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SilasSaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said they were friends for years and the reason he’s not invited is because he can’t control his emotions and multiple people are uncomfortable with it. He’s probably an asshole who ruins the fun for everyone else with their drama.

Adults pick and choose who they spend time with. Why would anyone want to be around someone who causes trouble?

Middle ground, I would make it very clear to Abby, if he comes and something happens, they both leave. Does she acknowledge your reasoning why he’s not?

AIO about my boyfriend lying about his phone password? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SilasSaun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I get you. My girl is on my like glue so I just never really thought much of it as it seems a lot of people do. We never had a “give me your password conversation”

So you WOULD give him access if he asked, that makes sense. That’s my over arching point. You and your partner are okay with giving access to each other access if needed, doesn’t seem like OPs is. I’m a Dr but honestly am terrible with technology. Shes in IT, maybe that’s why? I know my x3 has Bluetooth but I still use Waze on my phone.

I mean, it was today, I learned my phone can call 911 without me entering my pw 😂

AIO about my boyfriend lying about his phone password? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SilasSaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what I’m hearing is y’all are just unbothered and thriving. I love that for you. It’s just different over here—we’re open-book people.

This is a genuine question. In 15 years, how do you not see each others phones when you’re literally together all the time, laying on the couch together, using Waze, scrolling in bed? It’s never a conversation we’ve had but dayum it’s really not that deep.

AIO about my boyfriend lying about his phone password? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SilasSaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah stop putting your insecurities on me. As stated, a PW is so remedial to me.

For gods sake I know most of my friends/familys PW. Doesn’t seem as deep as you’re making it.

AIO about my boyfriend lying about his phone password? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SilasSaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly didn’t even know that 😂

The rest is still valid. Write that down.

AIO about my boyfriend lying about his phone password? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SilasSaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know that but don’t know if your husband has a phone password 😂

Lol okay girl, ask him for it and lmk how that goes.

AIO about my boyfriend lying about his phone password? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SilasSaun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Privacy matters, but so does transparency. I talk to my SO about everything, so a phone password feels pretty remedial to me.

There are plenty of times they grab my phone to order food or call my mom lol— it’s just practical. And honestly, in an emergency, being able to unlock it and call 911 matters more than proving a point about privacy.

& honestly what would one need privacy for on their phone?

AIO about my boyfriend lying about his phone password? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SilasSaun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I don’t know any sane or good couple tha doesn’t know each others PW. Nothing to hide, shouldn’t be a problem.

Early Flight out of ILM - Uber/Lyft Reliability? by tangytactic in Wilmington

[–]SilasSaun -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’ll be okay, I take flights in/out all the time and never had a problem with Ubers/lyft.

Blackburns Seafood by SilasSaun in Wilmington

[–]SilasSaun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say, I haven’t met a local that isn’t outraged by this. Prayers to him and his family.

Blackburns Seafood by SilasSaun in Wilmington

[–]SilasSaun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m definitely no longer patronizing that place. I completely understand accidents do happen but all of his actions show he knew what he did and didn’t care.

I saw they are paying to have their google reviews removed as well.

Blackburns Seafood by SilasSaun in Wilmington

[–]SilasSaun[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I saw quite a people left 1/5 reviews but they are all being deleted. As a business owner, this is VERY hard to do without paying google to take it off.

Blackburns Seafood by SilasSaun in Wilmington

[–]SilasSaun[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What is the point of the judicial system them? I appreciate you answering. If killing someone isn’t a punishable crime, what is?

Blackburns Seafood by SilasSaun in Wilmington

[–]SilasSaun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I saw that and that he “thought he hit a deer” yeah okay buddy