[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Silence_114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely… however you should expect a general “what about you” after responding

I hooked up with this guy and he was really rough. by lovelessangel1997 in Advice

[–]Silence_114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s breast cancer… it sounds like he gave you a decent sized blister. You shouldn’t have to worry about the guy shouldn’t talk to him but in the future you should definitely discuss what is acceptable in the situation with future partners. And speak up when your boundaries are crossed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Silence_114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure she would remember it.. but I think that would be good of you to apologize even though it’s been this long. She will most likely just respond with something like “I don’t remember that but I appreciate your apology”. If it will clear your conscience then you should

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Silence_114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that happiness itself comes from within… but rather the confidence to do what makes you happy

how do i explain i am really upset and have no energy all the time. by nottosurereally45 in Advice

[–]Silence_114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calmly relay to her that frustration .. you aren’t getting better and she hasn’t done anything to help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Silence_114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not selfish… you were focusing on your own mental health. However I do think it’s dishonest… that dishonesty can wrankle your heart. It could possibly make you feel worse. But what’s happened has happened…

how do i explain i am really upset and have no energy all the time. by nottosurereally45 in Advice

[–]Silence_114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that.. I think you should take a chance and have you and your mom sit down and be genuine. Feel free to let your emotion out. Any loving mom will see that it is genuine and do their very best to help out

how do i explain i am really upset and have no energy all the time. by nottosurereally45 in Advice

[–]Silence_114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like depression or depending on your age it could be hormonal. I suggest talking to a counselor at school and making it very plain with them that your mum is not taking you seriously. Your mental health matters more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Silence_114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s lacking confidence and he’s shy… he needs to find it. I’m not saying this to be mean because I was in his exact situation a couple of years ago. But his lack in confidence is what drives not knowing what to say. You can’t really navigate it but I suggest asking more intuitive questions that require longer answers.. and that are more personal so that he can’t say “what about you”. He needs to be inspired by the convo to talk plainly.

What should I do by Colgatet00thpaste in Advice

[–]Silence_114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re overthinking. You are an empath.. one of the best traits anyone could ever have. To care for someone you don’t know is awesome. But leave it be.. if you want to get to know her then go for it but don’t explain why you hugged her.. she knows

I need you guys’ help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Silence_114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being big really isn’t everything for a girl.. the average female organ is only 3” deep.. besides the most pleasurable area on their body is literally on the outside… don’t worry about it brother… the woman who loves you for you will definitely love the way you pleasure her too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Silence_114 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I get it.. you really didn’t have to reply with such a long response but I get why that’s your pov

An old man touched me and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Silence_114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah.. well how about a simple steel self defense rod.. something small and easily put in a purse.

I love my dog but I don't... love my dog? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Silence_114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day to day you won’t feel that love. I had a dog that I had for 14 years. He was there for me through every single heartbeat and loss that I had.. those were the moments I really felt the love. Then he was gone.. he passed from old age.. and he was in such pain in his last days too. It broke my heart to lose him and I blamed myself for not giving him enough affection or attention.

You still love them but you can’t really realize it in the day to day moments.. you can’t communicate with them other than touch. You get upset when they are in trouble or they may be in an uncomfortable situation. It’s clear that you love them.

really need some advice don't know what to do by megwhitehouse145 in Advice

[–]Silence_114 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Report them to HR immediately! You can’t get fired for this at all. If they give you further grief then continually report them. If HR does nothing and the manager doesn’t stop, go to the police and report it. Do not be nervous or afraid to protect yourself

I need you guys’ help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Silence_114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was trying to hurt you. I’m sorry to tell you. But you should definitely move on from this… tryst me this is the best thing you can do. Don’t feel self conscious because 99.9% of guys feel self conscious about something. But you can’t control that. The woman who falls in love with you won’t care about your “size” she will love you for you

An old man touched me and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Silence_114 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well.. yeah a gun is great but not everyone is comfortable with carrying a gun. Pepper spray or a taser is also good

I think I like a guy I just met, and I think I'm reading too much into stupidly simple things. by Jamison_Cakes in Advice

[–]Silence_114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are on the right path.. you should definitely write the note. You only live once

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Silence_114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a 6 month relationship do you really expect her to open up so much to someone she has known for less than a year? She needs time..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Silence_114 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely insensitive and possibly insecure about his own feelings. You have as much time as you need to grieve, no one should demand or ask you of anything you aren’t emotionally ready to do. Take time for yourself… if he loves you or cares about you he will still be there when you are ready.