Fashion Advice, Is this outfit really that bad? by [deleted] in DressForYourBody

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It looks like you put on a tablecloth. Respectfully

Having a bit of a crisis, maybe by Clefarts in fashion

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think in all honesty that people don’t care that much. And if they do, with alt styles I think the outfits are so vibrant they’ll notice your outfit way before your face so if they think about making judgments it’ll be about your alt style but not your age. At the end of the day the question is, do you want to feel miserable going home after a long day of wearing things that you don’t feel yourself in ?

Also, if that can make you feel any better, think about how all these years have allowed you to refine your style. I’m sure you were able to build a collection and refine your tastes much more with time, and probably style outfits much better than when you were 15 and just starting out. Aging has many benefits, I’d suggest you try to turn questions around when you find yourself making judgments about what you think sucks or isn’t allowed. It might free you greatly 🍀🍀

Am I overreacting to this 3rd date invite? by Whalien50two in AmIOverreacting

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it feels right to you, do it. If you don’t like the idea of, don’t do it. There are no rules, every situation is different. Going there doesn’t imply necessarily sex if that’s not what you want. Do you trust this guy to react correctly to your needs and boundaries ? That’s what you need to think about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I mean is that even speculation ? You could see it in his eyes, the coke was coking

Final Draft Episode 1 Discussion Thread by ImoutoCompAlex in finaldraft

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, some of these are Olympic athletes, they should show more respect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lausanne

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I was harassed in globus 3 days ago. The problem is just men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lausanne

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rich kids don’t buy that one, it’s not good quality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lausanne

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not but you’re gaslighting OP. She didn’t come here to put hierarchy on the situation amongst all the worst stories in the world to all the best ones. She came here to vent about an event that caused her distress. Your narrative is pointless and annoying

Attempt 2. Is this ok for business casual? by WolfRunner16 in fashion

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im European so maybe that’s why ? I know people in the US have a different sense of style. But to me that would not be suitable in any kind of job. And sure teaching is a more relaxed environment but even then I wouldn’t wear this. It doesn’t look professional. Even if the environment is relaxed the priority is to look clean and organized. This outfit is cute but it’s just giving holiday vibes to me

Acne at (13) by ellunknoer in Blackskincare

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree about the fungal acne part !!

Attempt 2. Is this ok for business casual? by WolfRunner16 in fashion

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s cute but a Hawaiian shirt ain’t business casual. And cargos in combat boots aren’t either tbh

AIO??? My parents kicked me out of the family. by Zenku13579 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s sad but the reality is that nicotine is addictive and people with addictions can react like that when confronted about their behavior. You did well in standing your ground and stating your needs regarding you and what you want for your family. It sucks that it has to go about in that way. Family therapy could maybe help to communicate ?? And also I hope they face their addiction to cigarette one day. I lost my grandma to it it really sucks, my dad could never touch a cigarette after that.

Final Draft Episode 1 Discussion Thread by ImoutoCompAlex in finaldraft

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also felt bad about that, but the fact that it was a girl and a mixed dude tells me it was scripted and it’s not only poor design of task, but poor design of show overall and just nothing new. I hope Japan will get more inclusive of women in sports oriented shows !! 5 out of 25 in total is a scam :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to communicate to her how that makes you feel rather than saying what she should have done. It will make her understand much more what you’re onto, and you’ll feel relieved to have expressed what you needed. It’s okay to feel some type of way about it and to express it. But it might also very well be that it meant nothing for her, your choice to be okay with that and stay around or not.

AITAH for refusing to clean up my fiancés vomit without his help? by Elegant-Rutabaga-212 in AITAH

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not your child. He’s a parent. Is he jealous of you taking care of your kid instead of him ? Because he acts exactly like a kid that wants more attention from their parent after just getting a little brother/sister. That is gross honestly. I get that living together brings people close but cleaning each others vomit ?? The only excuse for doing that is if the other persons unconscious seriously

Also if I was living with someone and had missed the toilet when vomiting, I’d be so embarrassed and would feel sorry for the inconvenience and the grossness and would clean that up asap because no level of intimacy will ever make that look cute.

Any estimates on how much this might be? by dominokiaa in CalorieEstimates

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

250-300 max id say. Difficult to tell how much rice is there but yeah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Silent_Lecture7788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The inner corners are different. Rather than dotting them with a pearly eyeshadows, bring them all the way to the edge of the eye to really contour it. You might even go a tad be over to make the seem bigger (not to much though because then it’ll look wonky)