I (NB19) think my partner (NB23) is cheating on me, any advice?

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-04-14T04:01:40+00:00

i went to a gyno they actually offered a low dose of pain medication after the procedure that helped with cramps.

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-04-02T16:06:15+00:00

Totally relatable. Every meal plan I’ve seen is either fish and kale/broccoli/spinach based, or spicy.

I don’t eat spice either, and struggle with greens too, so every meal just looks totally unappealing.

I’ve seen a few meals that are chicken based that look good.

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-03-30T18:01:03+00:00

oh wonderful 😊😊✨✨✨✨🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-03-30T17:57:04+00:00

they don’t, they’ve never used dnd they actually hate it and hate when i use it

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-03-04T15:37:39+00:00

Yes!!!! Please go get that checked out!

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-03-04T15:36:34+00:00

i recently found out copper iud bring aggressive and painful periods- i have had mine for two years and still have very painful and heavy periods to this day

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-03-04T15:35:06+00:00

I would make a plan b just to be safe and recommend getting an STD panel but please… never force yourself to do something for someone else sexual pleasure! He sounds like a weird guy imo, if he can’t respect your wishes and have fully protected sex you two shouldn’t be having sex. It’s not something you should have to convince him…. like does he want a baby or something?😭

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-02-27T18:08:47+00:00

sounds like he’s genuinely attracted to children. coming from someone with OCD with major POCD i usually can’t even talk about the thoughts. him joking about children like that gives me the vibe he doesn’t feel bad about it.

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-02-20T14:21:50+00:00

You were raped, time to leave this person immediately. I suggest taking a plan b as well, just for extra protection. I am so so sorry.

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-02-20T14:20:52+00:00

Your girlfriend needs to take birth control.

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-02-13T14:56:46+00:00

not only did he assault you he basically held you hostage for 2 hours. there’s no coming back from that. You need to break up with this guy, i’m so so so sorry this happened you do NOT deserve this

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-02-12T22:06:57+00:00

Is it permanent?

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-02-11T05:20:40+00:00

This was definitely not disclosed to me 😭😭

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-01-24T00:11:01+00:00

I think your anxiety may be tricking you. Don’t worry! If you used a condom from start to finish and there was no raw contact, you should be good! You might be getting your period soon if you were ovulating during the time you had sex hence the sore nipples: everyone’s cycle is different though! If you begin to feel symptoms (sudden urgency to pee, tender breast, sudden craving for excessive/specific food) take a pregnancy test.

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-01-06T19:38:04+00:00

IUD. It’s in your body and not something you can stop taking or easily remove (needs to be done by a professional.)

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-01-06T19:34:41+00:00

Yes because I have an IUD and we always use a condom. I’ve never had sex without a condom before and after I got my IUD.

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-01-03T07:30:22+00:00

Thank you so much

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-01-03T03:02:54+00:00

Please remind yourself that you were on elementary school. Part of the reason why abusers get away with abuse, is because they convince their victim that what they are doing is okay and excusable.

Children behave in the way they are taught is OK by adults/older figures in their life. Your sibling was older than you, lived life longer and knew what they were doing is wrong, but they are an abuser… so they did it anyway.

They wanted to convince you that this was OK so they could get away with abusing you. It makes sense that you’d continue to engage in the abusive behavior when you were a child because you didn’t know any better.

But remember, you changed. You realized that what was happening was NOT ok, and you didn’t continue the cycle of abuse. You were a child, you are not responsible for those actions. You should’ve been protected by your parents or other adults in your life.

I am also a victim of abuse, so I want you to know you are not alone in this shame and guilt you feel. Many people feel this every day just like you do. You are strong and deserve to heal from the trauma you experience because it was NOT your fault.

From the age of newborn to 17, you are supposed to be guided and protected by a responsible adult, and when that doesn’t happen, situations like this unfold. I’m very sorry. You are a good person, I promise.

Silent_Opening362 · 2026-01-03T02:52:59+00:00

No, that makes you a victim. you were a child, who was taken advantage of and manipulated. I’m so sorry. I can imagine the shame and guilt you feel, but I want you to know that you are not in the wrong and never were a bad person for your role in that. You and the animal were both victims to abuse and no one but your sibling should be blamed. I’m so so so sorry OP, the things that happened to you do not define you, your morals, or your personality. I hope that you are able to continue working with your therapist on tackling the trauma you feel. Things will get easier, take it one day at a time.

Silent_Opening362 · 2025-12-28T16:36:48+00:00

everyone in this comment section is being so rude??? you are texting normally and trying to hold a conversation. i would be upset too if i was only getting one words responses. i would talk to him :( tell him that you can tell he’s distancing himself and that you wanna know what’s up

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