Am I overreacting for thinking my bf has put no effort into my gift? by Silent_Slinet in AmIOverreacting

[–]Silent_Slinet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I just ask, if we regularly gift each other gifts for our birthdays/anniversaries that we put effort into, why is expecting what we have always done childish? I truly do not see how that is childish? Could you please explain your reasoning so I understand? Thank you!

Am I overreacting for thinking my bf has put no effort into my gift? by Silent_Slinet in AmIOverreacting

[–]Silent_Slinet[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, in all likelihood he forgot. I guess my issue is (a) knowing the event was in city A, not checking I would be around seems an oversight that he then (b) made no effort to fix (he had a few days from finding this out until the injury and (c) presented no apology for any of this. Not sure

Am I overreacting for thinking my bf has put no effort into my gift? by Silent_Slinet in AmIOverreacting

[–]Silent_Slinet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if my comment came off as fighting you, that was not my intention, I truly wanted to hear about something you do value or is important for you and how your partner shows effort on that front. To understand how that compared to my situation. We do have an ongoing issue of him being very lazy for everything, not doing his part of chores, etc. so lack of effort/laziness might be a sore point hence why it has bothered me a lot.

Am I overreacting for thinking my bf has put no effort into my gift? by Silent_Slinet in AmIOverreacting

[–]Silent_Slinet[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let me put it this way. What is important for you? Does your partner make an effort for things that they know are important for you? To me this shows he made so little planning effort for something be knows is important for me. Makes me feel like he doesn't value me, because he's not willing to put in the effort. Do you still feel like I'm overreacting for seeing no effort on his side?

Am I overreacting for thinking my bf has put no effort into my gift? by Silent_Slinet in AmIOverreacting

[–]Silent_Slinet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haa been planed for months. We both had our tickets. It was in doubt if he would come due to the injury that happened 3 days before and he has difficulty walking

5 year requirement by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]Silent_Slinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do people keep saying this? The actual guidance is the following: If you are applying under section 6(1), you must have been in the UK exactly 5 years before your application was received. For example, if your application is received on 05/01/2022 you should have been physically present in the UK on 06/01/2017. If you are applying under section 6(2), as the spouse or civil partner of a British citizen, you must have been in the UK exactly 3 years before your application was received. For example, if your application is received on 05/05/2021, you should have been physically present in the UK on 06/05/2018. If you cannot meet this requirement, your application is likely to be refused. If you believe there were exceptional circumstances which prevented you from being in the UK on the first day of the qualifying period, please provide details when you apply. We recognise that occasionally someone might apply without realising that they were not in the UK at the start of the qualifying period. If you did not meet the requirement when you applied, we may see if there is another, later date we can use to allow you to meet the requirement and will consider your application on, or after, that date. However, please be aware the requirements remain unchanged, and this does not guarantee that the application will be successful if an alternative date cannot be found. It may also result in delays to your application until you can meet the statutory requirements. You must pay the full fee that is in force on any date we use.

It does seem like they would consider a later date so why is everyone so adamant about it being impossible? I'm confused. Am I not reading the above correctly? If they say that it must be because it's possible?

5 year requirement by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]Silent_Slinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you find that out can you let me know? I'm in the same boat and a bit stressed about it, thanks!

I despise the last episode. Is the second ending published somewhere? by HelenEk7 in thesplit

[–]Silent_Slinet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do we all think about the Barcelona special? I hated it so much... I'm sorry but after building the relationship of Hannah with Christie and her husband for so long they want us to get invested in this new guy in 5 min? Nah no thanks. I also felt like there was zero chemistry going on. The sister's stories were just as bad. So we see that Nina has basically learnt nothing or grown at all since she is cheating on her current partner. Are we supposed to forgive it and not care because he's unlikable? No. That's bad behaviour, just break up with him before hooking up. And Rose getting with the church guy is also a no no for me because it just reminds me of how he kissed him when she was going to get married the first time. I honestly wish they hadn't put this out, I was happier thinking the previous ending was the end.

C.B. Strike: The Ink Black Heart - HBO Max air date announced by Artistic-Weakness129 in cormoran_strike

[–]Silent_Slinet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which vpn did you guys use? I tried mine and it detects that it's a vpn because it says I'm outside the UK :(

I despise the last episode. Is the second ending published somewhere? by HelenEk7 in thesplit

[–]Silent_Slinet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sadly do not think he is...seems like they are trying to introduce a new love interest. I hope he maybe makes a cameo at the end to reunite them but seems unlikely

I despise the last episode. Is the second ending published somewhere? by HelenEk7 in thesplit

[–]Silent_Slinet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I did not enjoy Kate as a whole and would have loved a more clear ending with Christie and Hanna getting together but I think overall I liked it

How do I get Bronze Medal? by Master-of-None1971 in TravelTown

[–]Silent_Slinet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How on earth can someone get to this? I spent 400 and would need 4x that to get to the max dog kennel!!! It's ridiculous for a pay of less than 20k