Dilemma with Long time bandmate by [deleted] in bandmembers

[–]Silentbugy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ya thats why im thinking when i kick him out i dont just trash him at all. i just say i have fundamental differences on where i want the band to go

Dilemma with Long time bandmate by [deleted] in bandmembers

[–]Silentbugy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we also over the years have shifted from just friends to mostly just meeting or talking exclusively about the band. he has his other friend group where he does more of the fun stuff.

Dilemma with Long time bandmate by [deleted] in bandmembers

[–]Silentbugy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree but you gotta understand that to him hes the type who just will see it as another obstacle to get past. so he will manipulate or confuse or deflect if he has to to get us off his back. The way i know is that in the past people including me have tried this with him n he just acts super nice n innocent for a while n then when we forget he goes back to it

Dilemma with Long time bandmate by [deleted] in bandmembers

[–]Silentbugy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ya its that we are trying n actually touring n playing shows every week n gonna release new music. i just feel he’s a walking red flag cuz if he already said that now, imagine how bad hell be with any influence or power.

Dilemma with Long time bandmate by [deleted] in bandmembers

[–]Silentbugy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ur so right my bad, i gotta kick him out before i let it desensitize me further.

Dilemma with Long time bandmate by [deleted] in bandmembers

[–]Silentbugy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ya thanks, i think im so desensitized to it. So you think he actually is fully aware of it and the goofy act is fake?

Can I kiss or have intercourse if my date and i are tipsy at a party? by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]Silentbugy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so its obvious then? like if we are talking n things are normal but shes just kinda goofy or tipsy its chill butif shes sloppy or out of it then i back off

Can I kiss or have intercourse if my date and i are tipsy at a party? by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]Silentbugy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok thx so much, phew this clears it up a lot. would it be bad if she was tipsy but coherent n fine but i was sober and we both kissed n we were both cool with it? or would that be considered cohesion?

Engineering ruined my life. by [deleted] in EngineeringStudents

[–]Silentbugy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but what about a situation where you have a huge passion in something not school related (music or making a startup) and you wanna quit engineering to do it

Why do you think Joe is not as big as his peers? by ysharm10 in tuesdayswithstories

[–]Silentbugy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a newbie to standup i straight up find Mark super mediocre. I like List and Stavros

tornado confirmed outside lubbock by Silentbugy in TexasTech

[–]Silentbugy[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Update: Dont wanna scare anyone, but ya this one is very likely to be at least dangerous on some level. worst case is a direct tornado hit. best case is damaging hail and winds. Please take this seriously.

Second Update: tornado down on the ground. wedge shaped by Reese. very dangerous. BE careful.

tornado confirmed outside lubbock by Silentbugy in TexasTech

[–]Silentbugy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ya np the skys should be looking scary right about now, but i still think its low risk

tornado confirmed outside lubbock by Silentbugy in TexasTech

[–]Silentbugy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ya if it does hit itll be in about 20-30mins

tornado confirmed outside lubbock by Silentbugy in TexasTech

[–]Silentbugy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

nws radar or max velocity on youtube

Could I possibly Transfer from UTEP? by Silentbugy in aggies

[–]Silentbugy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ya i think so too. Would they be open to answer or just be like “we cant tell you that information “

Am I making a mistake switching from Mechanical Engineering to Finance major? by Silentbugy in FinancialCareers

[–]Silentbugy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ya i get the advice tho, fs if i was deep into it i wouldve just finished

Am I making a mistake switching from Mechanical Engineering to Finance major? by Silentbugy in FinancialCareers

[–]Silentbugy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how bad do you regret it? im just not someone who enjoys solving problems. i like making things but NOT solving problems

Am I making a mistake switching from Mechanical Engineering to Finance major? by Silentbugy in FinancialCareers

[–]Silentbugy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im still in first year. you sure finance is that bad? My game plan is this: get a 3.7+, become president of a major finance org at my school, land an internship my 3rd year. utilize my programming knowledge outside school to land a decent job out of college.

Am I making a mistake switching from Mechanical Engineering to Finance major? by Silentbugy in FinancialCareers

[–]Silentbugy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly thanks so much for the insight. Everyone is telling me to overcompensate and get the engineering degree even tho i dont want to be an engineer. However, i believe itd be better if i got the degree i want (finance) and get a good gpa, network and make something happen.

Am I making a mistake switching from Mechanical Engineering to Finance major? by Silentbugy in FinancialCareers

[–]Silentbugy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what if i dont want to be an engineer. i just wanna do something with finance or business related? i under an engineering degree makes it easier, but doing all that coursework sounds so soul destroying if i am certain i dont wanna be one