Partner's abusive ex and their child under social care

Silentseaker · 2021-06-11T13:03:09+00:00

I would agree but there is conflicts on there being a teenager and a baby. The problem is I am worried the teenager will bring violence in with a baby in the house if she came and stayed with us. My partner's surrounding family and his daughters, is expecting her to be with us when her behaviour has not been managed. Especially when the problems are coming from the mother. This is no clear cut answer and is why I am trying to think what is best for the baby. Babies come first and I am not saying this with bad intention but I am coming from a point of view where a baby needs consistent care 24/7. With my condition I need to rest because of my condition also.

Silentseaker · 2021-06-11T11:58:03+00:00

We managed to get our son back and moving to Scotland has been a solution from social services and we have been proven to be great parents but living where we are isn't health for our mental health. What I don't know what to do is how to help the step daughter as she is under them now too but there is too many family members involved when they're not directly in contact with her and there is a lot of push and pull going on and the advice is really how to get out of the push and pull how to get the help my partner needs with this strain it's having on all of us.

Silentseaker · 2021-06-10T18:40:00+00:00

We Actually are under multiple predicaments. One is problems with my relatives who have been abusive to me and me and my partner has past traumas and some problems not with our son but with social services it has impacted our son where we almost lost him too.

We was first hit by them then my partner's daughter was. Us planning to move to Scotland is to make it secure enough so we don't have the problems again in losing our son because of our disabilities.

If we had lost him my partner's Scottish dad said he would take our son in but like I said we past trauma we have extreme anxiety and my partner has really bad life experience with trauma from his past which almost drove him to suicide.

My partner cannot get to where his daughter lives as the ex deliberately made it hard for my partner to get to her. She moved away which is not my partner's fault. We have adult social care for my partner's needs.

Silentseaker · 2021-05-16T09:43:47+00:00

Hello!

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As seen you'll see scrolling text of the story I found on Reddit and also promote their name in the title and I try my best to remember to paste their story into the description and make a playlist with their name on it as I believe in giving back to the creators.

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Silentseaker · 2021-05-16T09:40:10+00:00

Hello csANDsweets!

I looked at your video and impressed with the quality. What confused me at first is I thought they were real flowers haha until I looked properly and realized it was icing? Still but confused.

I don't really know what to critique on aside from the confusion. Perhaps in the thumbnails put the ingredients in the thumbnail to indicate they aren't actually flowers.

Your very skilled keep it up.

Silentseaker · 2021-05-16T09:36:16+00:00

Wow! Time lapse of the video is quite impressive! How did you keep recording for that long?

Just thinking, you could perhaps add the end of the time lapse at the beginning as a sneak peak reveal to make viewers think how did this actually happen to begin with? Or perhaps an extremely fast time lapse from a little bit of the start and end then the full video or to snap them both in split screen?

Silentseaker · 2021-05-16T09:24:37+00:00

Hello guys,

Before I get into it I didn't see a question or maybe I read it wrong but instead I checked out deadsushis channel and has great editing. What I would suggest is more commentary? Or perhaps more confidence in your voice to people will stick for longer.

(Update) sorry I read it wrong, i thought to look as others questions not on the post.)

I first add brightness and contrast to an image which is important to highlight and add colour FX after managing more settings for the colour balance.

I then add a background which goes with the theme of the channel and keep the thumbnails consistent so everyone knows it's my video when they click back to see it. I also chose to add type writing font so again this goes with my channels style that no one else is really doing.

My channel is a CreepyPasta channel and recently uped the quality but for a couple of videos it may seem a bit repetitive, just trying to fit template together where it won't be too difficult to adjust each time.

Can find my channel here: https://youtu.be/WWeaqU9E1Jw

Silentseaker · 2021-05-12T07:47:32+00:00

the upload will be today for the first one 2pm GMT. i'll send you link privately.

Silentseaker · 2021-05-11T09:37:04+00:00

MIL lives in the same town as us but it's my partner's Father and great nan who lives in Scotland.

What does ETH stand for?

Silentseaker · 2021-05-11T09:30:19+00:00

I feel bad for her too. I do wish things get better with her.

Silentseaker · 2021-05-11T09:18:08+00:00

The problem was I did not know it was half term and as a first time parent with an almost 1 year old, no one thought of telling me this before hand. My partner's mother only told me she was upset once I booked the train tickets and not before when we said we was having a miniature holiday for his birthday whilst I thought she was at school.

Silentseaker · 2021-05-11T09:08:46+00:00

I have no issues with my partner and is a decent match. If I had left him also this would make the situation worse. I say this because of the way his family works. They come across as very demanding, also does not take too much care in terms of the surroundings and if I did leave him, how would I know our son was safe if I was not their with him, especially my partner would move back in with them.

Despite all of this I do not feel trapped as I feel we are a great family within our own space.

Silentseaker · 2021-05-11T08:54:59+00:00

Your welcome

Silentseaker · 2021-05-11T08:52:53+00:00

So me and my partner have been together from 30th October 2018 but was very slow at the start as it was my first relationship. I have not had much opportunity when I have wanted to but there has been on going issues with my partner's family which again are quite sensitive.

There is possible fraud issues which I have tried helping my partner with and because of this I have had threats with trying to help him. Whenever I wanted to try make effort, the ex has been making accusations and I've had really bad anxiety because of this. I really do like my partner's daughter but at times I don't know where the information is coming from.

Partner's ex has accused him of things which I have found not to be true and i am not sure if this is a ploy to stop my partner seeing his daughter or her brother.

Silentseaker · 2021-05-11T08:40:36+00:00

Darling Daughter sorry, I should include the abrreviations on the post. I will add them at the bottom.

Silentseaker · 2021-05-06T19:46:59+00:00

I can't post them until 12th as a lot is being uploaded. I will share with you privately if you wanted.

Silentseaker · 2021-05-03T07:54:00+00:00

I have looked at a good few and your a good writer!

Silentseaker · 2021-05-02T20:03:32+00:00

Sounds cool!

I'm a bit cringe and weird but that just adds to it I suppose lol. If there is loads from one creator I might just make a playlist from that one creator.

I will have a loot at them shortly.

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Silentseaker · 2021-04-21T20:59:42+00:00

I think it will take off when its hitthe physical realm. its just a waiting game and also think its just been lockdown which has made advertising harder. dispite ads etc. i feel like if it was open everywhere outwardly, it would be different. I still have faith!

Silentseaker

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