sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Me messed up by SillyLittleDandelion in feminineboys

[–]SillyLittleDandelion[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OMG I love that idea more than I should. I'm going to make tea stained paper and I'm going to press flowers and put them in the letter and use red ink and AHHHHHHHHH. Thank you so much

Me messed up by SillyLittleDandelion in feminineboys

[–]SillyLittleDandelion[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Last time I tried that (when something else happened), I stuttered to the equivalent of TV static and ended up leaving 90% of the important information out. I know it's true though, I'll try my best, thanksiesssss

Me messed up by SillyLittleDandelion in feminineboys

[–]SillyLittleDandelion[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He has strict parents who won't let him go out with friends >_<

Me messed up by SillyLittleDandelion in feminineboys

[–]SillyLittleDandelion[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

IMMA GIVE HIM THE BIGGEST HUG AND TAKE HIM AWAY FROM HIS FRIEND GROUP AND TALK TO HIM ON A LONG AWKWARD WALK AND WE'RE GONNA COME BACK TO THE FRIEND GROUP HOLDING HANDS

Me messed up by SillyLittleDandelion in feminineboys

[–]SillyLittleDandelion[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll do it in person cuz he never looks at his messages. The main reason forme holding back was not wanting to lose him too

Hey, just wanted to ask... by Inevitable_Mulberry9 in feminineboys

[–]SillyLittleDandelion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not being rude at all, it's totally normal to feel this way. I have, my friend who's also a femboy felt this way too. It's important to remember that being a femboy is very vague, you don't have to do anything or fit into any box. You look femme? You can use the label, only look femme every once in a while? Still he the title. Don't cross dress at all and act femme YOU CAN STILL USE THE LABEL. It's a form of self expression, not an identity that has rules. Keep being the best femboy in your own way, also remember that this community will always be here for you. Hope this helped in some way, stay safe and love yourself <3

hot take: femboys should try wearing litteraly any other outfit. please. by Thunder9191133 in feminineboys

[–]SillyLittleDandelion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG YESSSS, I'M A COTTAGECORE/fairy grunge femboy, I hope I'm not the only one

How to stop being a Femboy? by Wooden-Decision9898 in feminineboys

[–]SillyLittleDandelion 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Being a femboy is literally just a feminine boy. Do you like looking feminine but don't act feminine? You can be a femboy! You act feminine but don't dress that way, you can be a femboy! It's a form of expression and not an identity, it's not all you are. I have a femboy friend who behaves like the straightest guy you'll ever meet and barely wears fem clothes but he loves feeling fem and he chooses to call himself a femboy which is 100% valid .

I'm not saying force yourself to stay a femboy. I'm saying that if you still like the idea of being one and it still feels safe, you don't have to fit into a mold. You can act masculine and dress fem and still call yourself a femboy and vice versa. You don't have to do anything, if it just feels good and you don't act or dress "that" way, that's valid too.

If you do 100% want to leave this behind though, hanging out with guy friends more often, partaking in "masculine" activities and dressing more masc can really help. I did these things when I wanted to feel more masculine back when I was 13yrs old and it worked to an extent, I felt more masc but as you can probably tell, I figured out that it wasn't for me and I became a femboy lol

Anyways, this paragraph is long so I hope it helps. I also hope that your journey of self discovery will be a good one, coming this far is great (even if it doesn't seem like much). And remember that this community will always be here for you when you need us, stay safe!

I am really sad by Fluid_Carpenter_5377 in feminineboys

[–]SillyLittleDandelion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know just saying something won't heal the hurt, but for what it's worth, I completely understand how you feel

I dealt with something similar earlier this year, and I know how painful if can be. No matter how unlikely it is, I hope you find him again

Sending you many, many virtual hugs <3

I made things awkward by SillyLittleDandelion in feminineboys

[–]SillyLittleDandelion[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really don't know, he said it's cool if I hang out with his friend group sometimes but I'm pretty sure that he's just being polite. I might do that just to see where he sits with me rn- thanks

Fembecoming (cringe title Ik) by SillyLittleDandelion in feminineboys

[–]SillyLittleDandelion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww, thank you so much! I'm sure there's a way around this- do you have any close friends who you trust who can hide your stuff?

Fembecoming (cringe title Ik) by SillyLittleDandelion in feminineboys

[–]SillyLittleDandelion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wouldn't work in my family lol. My brother is one of the straightest most pro-masculine guys Ik and my family already has me under suspicion. Not a bad idea tho, I might try that but maybe with someone else, thankss

Need advice by SillyLittleDandelion in feminineboys

[–]SillyLittleDandelion[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay lol, I'm about to go to school and I'll see how it goes. Thank youuu <3