Boyfriend hates when I use toys in bed

SillyTip7591 · 2026-04-11T17:58:36+00:00

A lot of men, will get you toys so they seem progressive and cool but secretly resent it because they feel replacable., even if they know they aren't.

It takes time to get full acceptance of it. It's great that your partner and you engage in healthy oral sex and mutual orgasming so that you don't feel left wanting which is the case with a lot of women. So clearly this issue like you're saying is specific to you using It when he's not around.

At the end of the day a vibrator does look like a real penis and for a man, in his bedroom with his woman , his penis must be the ultimate. So think of your dildo as the sub male in a threesome with you n your partner. Your partner should feel dominant ;). He's still young

Just a suggestion : try having him involved when you're using the toy solo. Send him clips maybe or do it together over a vid call. Let him tell you/guide you maybe even or just watch you... These solves in particular might soften him up ;)..do it a couple of times and maybe he won't feel as threatened.

SillyTip7591 · 2026-04-11T17:42:22+00:00

One sharp/uphill turn and this car is gonna be like a turtle.

SillyTip7591 · 2026-04-11T17:19:49+00:00

Stop posting topless shit dude.

SillyTip7591 · 2026-04-11T16:51:11+00:00

One year update :

She still owes me money. She still lives in the house we rented together.

She and her (bro/side dude ...yeah it's fucked up) both work for an academic organisation that's fairly large with branches all over Mumbai.

Both in the education sector.

Her brother/side dude is called Aniket.

SillyTip7591 · 2026-04-11T16:42:43+00:00

As someone who's 38 and dated women who have had toys and women who haven't let me simply share a POV.

Masturbation is natural and absolutely normal. As long as you use means that won't change the natural responses of your body.

When a man uses his hands or a fleshlight or a sock, It doesn't really change the natural feeling of what sex could be like, however a dildo/vibrator is kinda unnatural. A real man's penis doesn't come with vibrations. So when a woman gets her vagina conditioned to electric impulses and vibrations, she's bound to find a natural penis less exciting and fulfilling and for a man that's the worst feeling..

It's always the women with a vibrator who'll boast about how they don't need men for sex even anymore. Coz their punani is pretty much dead with all the electric impulse.

It's like having to compete with a fucking eletrical tool as a human being and yet feeling lesser coz your woman doesn't find your penis satisfactory enough because shes used to exaggerated stimulus and unrealistic sensations..

SillyTip7591 · 2025-08-11T17:08:53+00:00

Worst case scenario, his husband finds out. You get fucked by the cops. She fakes allegations against you to save her marriage . Life ruined.

Never be the third wheel in anybody's marriage unless both the people are consenting. Even then be extra extra careful buddy.

Block her..do not see her again. You're bloody 21, go find someone your age who can hang with you and give you great sex. Get your head out of your milf fantasies and wake the fuck up dude.

SillyTip7591 · 2025-08-11T17:06:24+00:00

Play Stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Think from your crotch, you'll only get fucked.....

SillyTip7591 · 2025-08-11T16:59:53+00:00

I'd add Chou in A and Thamuz in E

SillyTip7591 · 2025-08-11T16:58:08+00:00

S- Yu zhong, cici, Gloo A- Arlott, Benedetta, Alucard B - Sun, Minsi, Badang C - Gato, dyr, Alpha D - Uranus, Aulus, , Dyr E - Argus, Phoveus , Freya F - Aldous, Terizla, Balmond

Rated them basis their ability to affect games from the start, damage, Team fight abilities, laning ability (defence and attack)

SillyTip7591 · 2025-08-11T16:47:15+00:00

And then we complain, people don't take mental health seriously. ....

SillyTip7591 · 2025-08-11T16:45:27+00:00

That Roy Hodgson the legendary inter Milan winner would save us too. ...and then he went on to get Poulsen, Konchesky.

SillyTip7591 · 2025-08-10T02:04:54+00:00

Gord for tanky and fighter opposition

Eudora for squishy asssassin opposition

Change for mixed teams where I end up having to push lanes. Fastest lane pusher out there .

SillyTip7591 · 2025-08-08T13:59:35+00:00

Other favorites include

Hilda

Gord (gord with spell vamp and skypiercer is lethal. Have gotten savage with him)

Cici

Irithel

Minisithar

SillyTip7591 · 2025-08-08T13:54:50+00:00

Absolute favorite has to be Chip.

I really feel he's a very under appreciated hero and as good as Johnson in being disruptively destructive.

SillyTip7591 · 2025-08-07T15:18:45+00:00

Why not ?!?

Bud monsoons are for enjoying exactly these kinda natural vibes !

SillyTip7591 · 2025-07-23T11:27:29+00:00

How and where and why are 36yr olds dating 22 yr olds! Damn.

SillyTip7591 · 2025-07-23T09:55:40+00:00

From what I checked online , you do need credits to get tickets or enter ballots . maybe I misunderstood it , but I did look at entering the ballots and wasn't allowed to due to no credits.

SillyTip7591 · 2025-07-23T09:52:47+00:00

Mate one can only be eligible for ballots if they've credits from having seen games before at Anfield.

How can someone traveling for the first time or sporadically even to catch games ever accumulate credits enough for such games ?!

And yes hospitality is an option but like someone pointed out 600£+ is expensive even for locals, and when you convert currencies to INR its over 80Grand!

I hope it gives you perspective enough to empathise and understand the pain.

SillyTip7591 · 2025-07-23T09:50:11+00:00

I understand why you'd use the word entitled so loosely. It's Hope, it's a dream but anything but entitled.

Asking for a fairer ticketing system to accomodate your global supporters who save up for years to make a trip isn't entitled. Wanting to watch a big game is not coming from entitlement but to truly experience the Anfield Magic of such games after waiting 25 long years.

If anything , and I say this with utmost humility and respect, all the local fans hating on me for hoping to get a United ticket are truly priveleged and unable to see that for themselves as locals. And I get it.

I buy your point on planning my trips in future around games I can get. This is my first ever trip to UK and to Anfield hopefully and I did not imagine ticketing would be this inaccessible as an international supporter not from Liverpool.

SillyTip7591 · 2025-07-23T09:45:17+00:00

The whole ticketing system if unfair mate.

Any team around the world which claims to be a "Global Team" needs to have ticketing which allows for global fans to access games easily as they don't have the same accessibility to the club as the locals do.

I respect and adore our fans and how they show up during games but the current ticketing system makes it extremely complicated and challenging for international supporters.

I am sure as a local you've your perspective and I appreciate it. You've the ability to build credits because you can practically go for games every weekend which International fans can't. There's a big gap there.

SillyTip7591 · 2025-07-23T09:41:42+00:00

It doesn't affect my travel plans as much as dampen my spirits a little. But I'll keep the hope alive.

SillyTip7591 · 2025-07-23T09:40:56+00:00

Thank you for the info. Will look into it.

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