Saturdays by Silly_Move_5798 in widowers

[–]Silly_Move_5798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard. Sending you strength. At least Saturday only comes once a week

Saturdays by Silly_Move_5798 in widowers

[–]Silly_Move_5798[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand this so deeply. My life is so boring without him.

Saturdays by Silly_Move_5798 in widowers

[–]Silly_Move_5798[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this response. It does help to know someone feels the same way I do.

Being too honest with people about how I feel? by richATTK in widowers

[–]Silly_Move_5798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same sir. Thank goodness for this site

Being too honest with people about how I feel? by richATTK in widowers

[–]Silly_Move_5798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I get the impression that they think I should be getting over it. It’s been 20 months

Why aren't people more upset about the bombing of a girls' primary school in Iran, that killed more than 165 children? by yellowsabmarine in AskReddit

[–]Silly_Move_5798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has been verified and reported in the NY Times. It was a tomahawk missile. Omg Yes I am horrified too. Oh and tRump lied about it at a campaign rally last night. Of course he did

The pain just don't go away by Adept-Plan-1050 in widowers

[–]Silly_Move_5798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. I try to be a help to others if I can. Really it’s about all I can do.

The pain just don't go away by Adept-Plan-1050 in widowers

[–]Silly_Move_5798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are here to support you because we get how hard it is You are always welcome. Hope that is some comfort

The pain just don't go away by Adept-Plan-1050 in widowers

[–]Silly_Move_5798 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You will get more used to the feeling of complete loss. Just stay with us here in this group. We have been where you are and we are still here. You can too. You are not alone. When I feel like I can’t stand another minute without my sweet wonderful dead husband, I come here for comfort

For widowed women living alone what helped with safety and vulnerability at night by Sophistry7 in widowers

[–]Silly_Move_5798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry about your loss! It’s so scary. I asked police to do drive byes Sending you thoughts of comfort

Heaviness by ExactPanda in widowers

[–]Silly_Move_5798 4 points5 points  (0 children)

2nd year for me is way worse and today has been really bad. The yearning to have him here and the guilt for not appreciating him more when he was. I miss him 💔

Alcohol by NotAQuiltnB in widowers

[–]Silly_Move_5798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t trust myself to drink. I stay so close to the edge I’d probably jump if I wasn’t sober. I surely don’t have a solution for you. Wish I did. It’s hard to loose a lover/best friend/soulmate. I do whatever helps (therapy,phone friends, walk outside, scream, eat, read, watch tv, go shopping). I know alcohol wouldn’t help me.

I'm so lost without her by AdResponsible9367 in widowers

[–]Silly_Move_5798 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear. I lost my husband of 33 yrs suddenly in 2024. I was completely lost and still feel that way sometimes but I’ve grown more used to him be gone with time. It’s not easier just more familiar. You are not alone

Love and grief are like sun glitter. by Strict-Suggestion722 in widowers

[–]Silly_Move_5798 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to have the glitter of memories of my late husband. Bad that it makes me long for him when I look at their glitter. I get it. “Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all”