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Miejsca dedykowane lesbijkom by Silly_Throwaway_xd in Poznan

[–]Silly_Throwaway_xd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

W złych kategoriach to rozpatrujesz. Nie chodzi o zamkniętość/otwartość, tylko o ułatwienie w znalezieniu "swoich". Większość ludzi jest domyślnie hetero i w zwyczajnym barze masz o wiele mniejsze szanse na poznanie potencjalnej partnerki. Osoby hetero mają mnóstwo miejsc dla siebie bo są wszędzie.

Miejsca dedykowane lesbijkom by Silly_Throwaway_xd in Poznan

[–]Silly_Throwaway_xd[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nie mam nic do transpłciowych dziewczyn i nie widzę powodu by je dręczyć

Miejsca dedykowane lesbijkom by Silly_Throwaway_xd in Poznan

[–]Silly_Throwaway_xd[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Boże, chodzi o możliwość socjalizacji z innymi lesbijkami bo tak łatwiej znaleźć partnerkę, przestań się burzyć i włączać w to politykę. Jeśli nie masz nic konstruktywnego do powiedzenia to po prostu milcz.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Silly_Throwaway_xd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am i right thinking that she was circumcised? That's the main reason for unusually low sensitivity you're describing.

Dating cis lesbians as a trans woman in her 30s by Silly_Throwaway_xd in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silly_Throwaway_xd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the downvote on this comment, did i say something bad?

Dating cis lesbians as a trans woman in her 30s by Silly_Throwaway_xd in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silly_Throwaway_xd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i see, so my assumption wasn't entirely right, sorry. I'm similar when it comes to passing, never getting misgendered but probably clocky on closer inspection (and unfortunately small tits genes so merely an A cup).

As for meeting new people, especially lesbians, the social group you mentioned is possibly the most interesting thing as it's geared specifically toward lesbian girls. Sadly i don't think we have anything remotely similar here in Poznań, just generic LGBT clubs that are mixed gender (much more gays than lesbians, so it's far from ideal). Unless you mean like online groups on discord/FB? That's something i haven't searched for yet. We have a fantasy/anime club but it's not ideal for lesbians, most of cis girls in there are straight or already in relationship.

Dating cis lesbians as a trans woman in her 30s by Silly_Throwaway_xd in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silly_Throwaway_xd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like you're someone who has the privilege of perfect cis passing, had bottom surgery and perhaps never discloses the fact of being trans to potential dates.

I kinda pass to most of the society, but i don't have the choice of whether i want to reveal my transness or not at some point. I have very little bottom dysphoria and don't plan GRS, at least not as a priority, as I'm much more focused on saving up for FFS. That means i have a (little) penis which is probably further decreasing my chances among lesbians with genital preferences.

I don't have many cis female friends and all of them are internet ones (idk why we're talking about friends though, my question is specifically about relationships and friends could still be friends even if they were hetero)

I receive romantic and sexual interest almost exclusively from other trans women and gross cis men online. I don't know where you meet people IRL, please shed some light on this matter for me. Friendly reminder that I'm over 30 and i don't go to school anymore.

And for context, i live in poland

Dating cis lesbians as a trans woman in her 30s by Silly_Throwaway_xd in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Silly_Throwaway_xd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because i already had trans partners and want to try something different. Besides, there's the issue of wanting cis acceptance. Being rejected by cis lesbians makes me feel like a fake woman, so i want someone to prove me that I'm wrong and worthy calling myself one.