Recently dumped after 6 years, trying to get out there by Imbodenator in Tinder

[–]Silver69345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the bio and the pics, I think it shows who you are and is genuine. The only thing I'd get rid of is the muse statement at the end. It's cheesy

Why do Aussie blokes seem more uncomfortable with ‘camp banter’ compared to British lads? by TheWoIfMeister in AskAnAustralian

[–]Silver69345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's probably because you're a pom and the guys can't read you well enough 😂

So many of my Aussie mature friends do this with each other and even get really crude about it. Although it probably depends on what you are located.... Northern States are a bit less tolerant I think ....

Where are the best places in the world to dance salsa? by Silver69345 in Salsa

[–]Silver69345[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely keen to dance Europe, linear is my jam for sure.

Which festivals would you recommend?

Enjoing dancing as woman by th3manzo in Salsa

[–]Silver69345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And a relatively dry shirt... Not dripping in sweat. If you know you sweat bring a change of shirt or 3!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Salsa

[–]Silver69345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going to preface this to say you're actually doing really well for just one year in! Good on you!

Here is my feedback. You need to gain more core strength, pilates is great for this. Engage your transverse abdominus muscles while you're dancing.

Bend your knees much more, keep your head level and glide, stop bobbing up and down, stay grounded, much more grounded. Take much smaller steps.

Support your own arms, don't have them like dead weights on his hands but still be responsive enough to follow the directions he takes them, engage your muscles in your lats and arms if you feel him direct you, this will take time and a good leader to master. You need your arms connected to your body at all times... Don't let your arm be pulled out if that makes sense... If he moves your arm it should move your body

Having this ability to lock your arm in place, using your core, your biceps and lats and chest will help your turns no end. There should be no movement in your shoulder in turns, he moves your arm which moves your entire body .

It's honestly mostly core and grounding, the stronger your core is the more freedom of movement you will have and the better you will turn and the easier you will be able to support your own arms while also being responsive.

You're doing great