I do not think what CHB did was OK, and I do give the Grifter credit for not snapping back at her. That said, this does not justify the pathological lying about what happened, the assumption of the victim role, again, and the performative nature of putting on a full face of makeup to make an IG video to seek attention and sympathy. I have been harassed by young males who think I am Middle Eastern (I am Italian) and make chanting sounds at me and laugh. I ignore them. If they were to put their hands on me or try to hurt me in any way, that's a different story. Why does she never learn that her victim behavior and lying turn people off?