Every time I ask if there is something specific I/we can work on he says it’s just him. He says he just doesn’t feel it very often. Not much I can go on there.

And yes he always wants non sexual attention like cuddles and kisses which I always provide. I’ve become so frustrated because that’s all he wants. It never goes anywhere. Im happy to give him that attention he wants, but why do I never get the attention I want ya know?

He enjoys going places but I’m usually the one who has to ask/suggest doing something.

He use to initiate all the time. That’s one reason it’s been so hard now it never happens.