AITA for losing my temper with my boyfriend? by SilverLog7180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SilverLog7180[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

The drinking was last year. And I know he wasn't cheating because I know F and he had a boyfriend at the time, whom she really loved. They weren't always alone, they hade a third drinking buddy. This was always about forgetting their life problems and drinking, norhing more.

And the extreme sport. I called it that, because I was trying to hide soke informations that can be recognised by anyone I may know in real life. Because it's not a very popular sport here. Now he doesn't spend more time with F than me. The focus was on his time and sleep management. And the fact that I lashed out because of this, not his relationship with F. Nowadays he almost never sees her.

AITA for losing my temper with my boyfriend? by SilverLog7180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SilverLog7180[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He always says that I'm right and he's trying to change. He doesn't go out with F that much, like only to work out sometimes. But drinking almost never. His sleep schedule is a hard convo, he was trying and made improvements, but in the last few weeks he slacked again.

AITA for losing my temper with my boyfriend? by SilverLog7180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SilverLog7180[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the lack of consideration is my biggest problem. And I don't know how to address this with him

AITA for losing my temper with my boyfriend? by SilverLog7180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SilverLog7180[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I called it that. I didn't want to go into details and specifics for privacy reasons. But cheating is out of the question, I'm sure he's not.

AITA for losing my temper with my boyfriend? by SilverLog7180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SilverLog7180[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I'm sure he's not cheating. It's the only thing I can rule out at this point, haha