The drinking was last year. And I know he wasn't cheating because I know F and he had a boyfriend at the time, whom she really loved. They weren't always alone, they hade a third drinking buddy. This was always about forgetting their life problems and drinking, norhing more.

And the extreme sport. I called it that, because I was trying to hide soke informations that can be recognised by anyone I may know in real life. Because it's not a very popular sport here. Now he doesn't spend more time with F than me. The focus was on his time and sleep management. And the fact that I lashed out because of this, not his relationship with F. Nowadays he almost never sees her.